I do not feel bad that he is over his head paying child support....and I wont terminate either.
So today my ex dumb ass messaged me asking if I filed to have DH adopt my son. No we haven't, I can't seem to find the right paperwork and I dont have 1500 to pay a lawyer plus all the fees associated with it. Besides, its not a huge deal since the ex has nothing to do with my son and my son has no idea who the hell the guy is.
This guy beat me and abused me and I left him right when my son was born, well I kicked him out but still he was gone. Shortly after I met DH and he pretty much took over beign dad and has been that.
I have tried to get the idiiots rights terminated, although he doesn't really have any. I have full custody and it says in the divorce papers that I am the only one who has the right to make decisions for my son. So pretty much there isn't much he has power over anyway, and he just pays child support....sometimes.
Well apparently he recently had his 6th child. 6th with the 4th woman, so he is paying CS on 5 other kids. And supposedly this chick left him alone with this kid and took off....I am a bit skeptical of that one but I will keep my ideas to myself, I mean I know what he is capable of so who knows really. And he may also be telling storeis. He told me he is doing it "on his own" and is struggling because of the child support...HAHAHAHA yeah like I am really going to feel sorry for his stupid ass.
So he was trying to get me to pay half for the adoption, i told him I don't have it. He told me that maybe he can just sign over his rights and pay off his back suport(nearly 2000) and then me just have it ended.
I am so tempted to let him sign his rights over and then not stopping the child support. I feel like sticking it to the idiot for all the bull crap he put me through for 4 years, I was with him 2 years but after I had my son he would call and threaten me and just say horrible thigns to me, along with his mother and his step dad emailing me nasty things.
If what he says is true then I hope he is unable to care for the baby and has it taken away because that abusive SOB needs to just be miserable forever.
Ok I am done, I just needed to get that out..