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i cant belive people think it's ok to punish a child for being raped

Anonymous
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I was molested from 8-10 and raped for years if someone had walked in on my step cousin and me it would have looked like consentual sex....wtf is wrong with you mothers why does no one relise an almost 19 year old shouldn't have sex with his 14 year old step sitster and she shouldn't want to he has probably been grooming her....I was 8 when it started he was 15
Posted by Anonymous on Jul. 16, 2012 at 8:58 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jul. 16, 2012 at 9:01 PM
in that post she said they were going at it. so the girl knew what she was doing. the boy was wrong and should have went someone his age. that mom was acting like her daughter was innocent at first and was threatening her husband and saying she would divorce him if he helped his own flesh and blood.
mommasbabies77
by on Jul. 16, 2012 at 9:02 PM
Oh I agree. I'm also a survivor.
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LovelyJay512
by Platinum Member on Jul. 16, 2012 at 9:05 PM
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You didn't read the post carefully.
Sorry you went through that but I think your situations are two different situations.
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surprisedmom22
by Member on Jul. 16, 2012 at 9:07 PM
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I agree with you. I do not understand how any parent can't see it. I do not understand how females can stand by and let other females be hurt...

tazdvl
by Silver Member on Jul. 16, 2012 at 9:08 PM
She wasn't acting like her daughter was innocent, and when she told her husband that she was still angry. After she calmed down she told him he could help his son.

Quoting Anonymous:

in that post she said they were going at it. so the girl knew what she was doing. the boy was wrong and should have went someone his age. that mom was acting like her daughter was innocent at first and was threatening her husband and saying she would divorce him if he helped his own flesh and blood.
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Salsacookies
by Gold Member on Jul. 16, 2012 at 9:08 PM
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If the 14 year old was a willing particiapant, it isn't rape. Legally it is because of their ages, but she was just as much into it as he was.

PerfectVirgo
by Gold Member on Jul. 16, 2012 at 9:08 PM
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I don't even think an 16 year old knows what the hell they're doing with their bodies. I'm with you on this one.

metalhealthmom
by on Jul. 16, 2012 at 9:09 PM
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I think you're more sympathetic to the girl because of what you went through. Sometimes our experiences can cause us to put blinders on when we perceive someone to be in a similar situation as us.
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PerfectVirgo
by Gold Member on Jul. 16, 2012 at 9:10 PM
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How can a 14 year old consent? What the hell is wrong with you??

Quoting Salsacookies:

If the 14 year old was a willing particiapant, it isn't rape. Legally it is because of their ages, but she was just as much into it as he was.


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MNDsM
by on Jul. 16, 2012 at 9:10 PM
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So fucking ignorant I don't even know where to start! A lot of molestation victims "go at it" with their molesters! They don't know any better. The mother said he was her son from age 12...so her dd would have been 8 or 9. You don't know now long it was going on, or how long he has been grooming her for this. I'm sure he's such a decent guy that he thought "hey, I want to fuck my step sister, but I'll wait until she's finally 14 to make a move". *eyeroll*

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in that post she said they were going at it. so the girl knew what she was doing. the boy was wrong and should have went someone his age. that mom was acting like her daughter was innocent at first and was threatening her husband and saying she would divorce him if he helped his own flesh and blood.
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