I am sure there are several of us that had sex at young ages, sometimes with older men. Have you ever looked back and been disgusted at the older men that tried to flirt with/have sex with you? I do. I was 15 years old and I remember having 30 year old men hitting on me and my friends (we used to hang out at the bowling alley) before that we would be at the skating rink (12 /13) and older men would be hitting on us there. At the time, though, we thought it was cool that all of those older men liked us. We thought that made us more mature and grown up that we could attract guys like that. I am still friends with some of those girls, and looking back we are disgusted by those men. Have any of you experienced that?
Quoting lovelove211:
Yep. I regret a lot of what happened in the years when I was 15-16
That's why I don't see how people call a 14 year old girl a whore. Yes, I thought I wantedthat attention, but I was no where near grown enough to act on my hormonal urges. An older person taking advantage of that is disgusting, especially when it was someone that the girl trusted (yes, I am referring to an earlier post someone made in here). Yes, I was "slutty" at 14 to 15 years old (even though I was a virgin for most of that time, my actions were not innocent), but I did not go on to be a whore and I am perfectly happy with someone that I love.
Quoting Anonymous:
Quoting lovelove211:
Yep. I regret a lot of what happened in the years when I was 15-16That's why I don't see how people call a 14 year old girl a whore. Yes, I thought I wantedthat attention, but I was no where near grown enough to act on my hormonal urges. An older person taking advantage of that is disgusting, especially when it was someone that the girl trusted (yes, I am referring to an earlier post someone made in here). Yes, I was "slutty" at 14 to 15 years old (even though I was a virgin for most of that time, my actions were not innocent), but I did not go on to be a whore and I am perfectly happy with someone that I love.
I just hate the culture where the myth of the "seductive child" is used as an excuse for an adult to take advantage of it. I mean, when we were that age, we were learning to flirt and that is a social skill that we actively practiced. It doesn't mean we were out to sleep with every guy around, and usually the ones that do have sex at that age have something going on anyways. No matter how much a 14 year old girl pursues an older man, he is the adult and he should step away. In the post that I talking about, perhaps his mom and dad should have taught him not to have sex with minors.
Quoting lovelove211:
I agree
Quoting Anonymous:
Quoting lovelove211:
Yep. I regret a lot of what happened in the years when I was 15-16That's why I don't see how people call a 14 year old girl a whore. Yes, I thought I wantedthat attention, but I was no where near grown enough to act on my hormonal urges. An older person taking advantage of that is disgusting, especially when it was someone that the girl trusted (yes, I am referring to an earlier post someone made in here). Yes, I was "slutty" at 14 to 15 years old (even though I was a virgin for most of that time, my actions were not innocent), but I did not go on to be a whore and I am perfectly happy with someone that I love.
i never dated a guy more then 3 years older then me, but iv been hit on by 50-60 year olds, one guy was even riding his bike by me turned around and asked me how old i was, he was friggen married and my df was walking toward me to
Quoting Anonymous:
I didn't mean to hit anon. Yea I am glad I waited until I was 20. I hope my dd listens to me and waits also. I honestly couldn't imagine having sex at such a young age. I'm not bashing I just can see myself in that situation ya know.
Trust me, I am not proud of it. I wasn't as sexually active as some girls that I knew, but in the end I just felt worthless and used. I never had orgasms, it wasn't as fun as everyone made it sound.
Quoting Ber-Lynn:Quoting Anonymous:
I didn't mean to hit anon. Yea I am glad I waited until I was 20. I hope my dd listens to me and waits also. I honestly couldn't imagine having sex at such a young age. I'm not bashing I just can see myself in that situation ya know.
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