I happen to agree! I mean at 14, I was young, dumb and immature. What I THOUGHT love was.....was actually NO WHERE near the real thing! HE was an adult and HE knew better! YOU were a CHILD!
Quoting Anonymous:
For me it's the age difference 14 and 19, 5 years that's not far and common for many relationships later in life but 14 to 36 is sick and wrong. I think those are two totally unlike situations and I'm very sorry about what happened to you.
I'm very sorry that happened and it's very brave of you to share. I hope the wolves stay away.
Quoting Anonymous:
For me it's the age difference 14 and 19, 5 years that's not far and common for many relationships later in life but 14 to 36 is sick and wrong. I think those are two totally unlike situations and I'm very sorry about what happened to you.
It is ok, I am comming to terms that I was raped and was used because I had no self esteem.
At 13 I was in a very similar situation (almost exact) but the guy was 19. He manipulated me and I honestly had no idea what was happening. He acted first like he wanted to be my friend. Then, he would buy me stuff and my friends were impressed he could drive. I never even knew what sex was and had never seen a penis before. I was very naive and I didn't realize what was happneing and just shut my eyes after saying no and shut down and let it happen. After that, we stayed together for a month- max where I would just shut down and let him do what he wanted . Now I look at him like a pedophile who lured and manipulated me into that situation, and much later he was charged with rape of another little girl like me. Rather than helping me, my mother told me I was a whore and made me so ashamed of what happened. I wish I had support so I could have helped the other girls he hurt as well. I thought for the longest time that I was a whore and could have prevented it. I was so ashamed and had issues for years because of it. Now I look back disgusted at every adult who turned a blind eye to it.
Quoting saltyalley1227:
I definitely consider it rape. At that age you are not as wise to the manipulation men use as you are when you're adult.
I'm very sorry that happened and it's very brave of you to share. I hope the wolves stay away.
They won't stay away one already voted me as a slut, but I am ok with that. I have come to terms I was rapped I can now see how he manipulated me all thanks to a wonderfully therapist who went around the subject to have me come to terms
Quoting MamaSwan001:Quoting saltyalley1227:
I definitely consider it rape. At that age you are not as wise to the manipulation men use as you are when you're adult.
I'm very sorry that happened and it's very brave of you to share. I hope the wolves stay away.
They won't stay away one already voted me as a slut, but I am ok with that. I have come to terms I was rapped I can now see how he manipulated me all thanks to a wonderfully therapist who went around the subject to have me come to terms
Quoting Anonymous:At 13 I was in a very similar situation (almost exact) but the guy was 19. He manipulated me and I honestly had no idea what was happening. He acted first like he wanted to be my friend. Then, he would buy me stuff and my friends were impressed he could drive. I never even knew what sex was and had never seen a penis before. I was very naive and I didn't realize what was happneing and just shut my eyes after saying no and shut down and let it happen. After that, we stayed together for a month- max where I would just shut down and let him do what he wanted . Now I look at him like a pedophile who lured and manipulated me into that situation, and much later he was charged with rape of another little girl like me. Rather than helping me, my mother told me I was a whore and made me so ashamed of what happened. I wish I had support so I could have helped the other girls he hurt as well. I thought for the longest time that I was a whore and could have prevented it. I was so ashamed and had issues for years because of it. Now I look back disgusted at every adult who turned a blind eye to it.
I felt the same like it was my fault and that I was just a whore and blah blah.
Being a SAHM for the past 5 yrs has made me
- MamaSwan001
on Jul. 16, 2012 at 9:44 PM