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[Anonymous]

I just went through DHs phone and their is gay porn and some pics with him and his best friend messing around . cant deal with this right now.
We've been married for 14years. He best friend was his best man at our wedding. We have 6 girls together. What do I say to him? Sould I just walk away?

We meet with marriage counselor in the morning, I
kinda want to believe, he was too dunk and that it
was a one time only thing. We've been married and
have came too far to just throw it all away. :/

I hope we can work through this I really do, I love him too death and he's a awsome daddy and works hard for our family! Wish me luck ! :/

[LISAMORRISON1]

I hope it works itself out. However I could never be messed up enough to get it on with another female.

Quoting Anonymous:

We meet with marriage counselor in the morning, I kinda want to believe, he was too dunk and that it was a one time only thing. We've been married and have came too far to just throw it all away. :/

Quoting LISAMORRISON1:

So Wth happened??? I aware I know a very similar story of a friend of mines dh,now her ex. Walked in..blamed it on being too messed up. She didn't buy it. He now lives with the guy platonicly of course.....

Quoting Anonymous:

No, not at all, he what I would call super manly. He works on a oil rig,


Plays all types of sports. Not a Girly man at all.

Quoting LISAMORRISON1:

Let me know please. I can't imagine how difficult it will be and infuriated you are. Id go psycho. Just curious if you ever had any suspicions?

Quoting Anonymous:

I will he's working 3rd shift tonight and forgot his phone. I called my sister for her input but she didn't answer the phone. :( I'm just trying not to have a panic attack and have a few drinks.

Quoting LISAMORRISON1:

I can't ever keep my mouth shut. I do however try to have a cooling off period before I say what's on my mind. Maybe u could say something like you heard his bf might be gay and see if you get a reaction, tell him there's rumor of a pic and did he know anything about it. Good luck!!

[Anonymous - Original Poster]

There have been a few times he drank a enough to black out

Quoting LISAMORRISON1:

I hope it works itself out. However I could never be messed up enough to get it on with another female.

Quoting Anonymous:

We meet with marriage counselor in the morning, I kinda want to believe, he was too dunk and that it was a one time only thing. We've been married and have came too far to just throw it all away. :/

Quoting LISAMORRISON1:

So Wth happened??? I aware I know a very similar story of a friend of mines dh,now her ex. Walked in..blamed it on being too messed up. She didn't buy it. He now lives with the guy platonicly of course.....

Quoting Anonymous:

No, not at all, he what I would call super manly. He works on a oil rig,


Plays all types of sports. Not a Girly man at all.

Quoting LISAMORRISON1:

Let me know please. I can't imagine how difficult it will be and infuriated you are. Id go psycho. Just curious if you ever had any suspicions?

Quoting Anonymous:

I will he's working 3rd shift tonight and forgot his phone. I called my sister for her input but she didn't answer the phone. :( I'm just trying not to have a panic attack and have a few drinks.

Quoting LISAMORRISON1:

I can't ever keep my mouth shut. I do however try to have a cooling off period before I say what's on my mind. Maybe u could say something like you heard his bf might be gay and see if you get a reaction, tell him there's rumor of a pic and did he know anything about it. Good luck!!

[Anonymous]

Look. I didn't marry mine or have kids with him but he was doing the same EXACT thing as your DH!! 14 years or not you are his cover up and his best friends wife is his. They don't want society to look down on them. You really need to talk to him. Find out if It's just the best friend or if there are more. Be completely open And honest to what he has to say. But ask him to accept your emotions and reactions to what he is saying. Idk how old your girls are but its okay to be selfish and let him do him and you find someone who is into you. Gl and please don't be his cover up.

[Anonymous]

Honey your husband has been watching to much Brokeback Mountain. Now you know why his ass checks out guys instead of girls. You don't do nothing for him. He's a fag. Get a divorce. And Thank God you don't have sons.

[Anonymous - Original Poster]

-_- really? You troll my post and that's the best you got?

Quoting Anonymous:

Honey your husband has been watching to much Brokeback Mountain. Now you know why his ass checks out guys instead of girls. You don't do nothing for him. He's a fag. Get a divorce. And Thank God you don't have sons.

[Anonymous]

Well it's not my husband who is messing around with other guys. Your just mad because you don't have the right tool to make him happy. Don't be mad at me because your husband is fruit cake.

Quoting Anonymous:

-_- really? You troll my post and that's the best you got?

Quoting Anonymous:

Honey your husband has been watching to much Brokeback Mountain. Now you know why his ass checks out guys instead of girls. You don't do nothing for him. He's a fag. Get a divorce. And Thank God you don't have sons.

[destiny2nv]

You should say something. Do y'all have a decent sex life? I probably couldn't handle it. I'm thinking if they made a video its not the first time, or last. He is either bi, or both of them love/want each other and prefer to stay in the closet, and have their families. I'm sorry, that's horrible.

[TrouserMouse]

Umm, no...just no.

[ColtsFan1912]

drunk or not i'd probably walk away. I don't think I could deal with that. :\

[dmarie2101]

:o\

he works on an oil rig...

doing some of his own directional drilling.

lol. idk what to tell you. dude obviously likes the dick. you cant counsel the gay out of him. either turn a blind eye, let him have his play time (with his friend, not here there and everywhere) compromise and get a strap on, or leave.