my friend/old coworker commited suicide. his anniversery is coming up next month. (7 years). he hung himself in a tree at his house. since then his wife, and kids and his older sister all live in that house. well his sister wants to take it down and his wife does it. his wife asked for my input, along with a few of his old coworkers and we are at a loss for words, we really dont know what to say. we dont want to say its just a tree bc she leaves flowers on it every year and spread his ashes down over by the tree as well. but then again it is just a tree. i wish she didnt get us involved but she is involving everyone so she can get to her sil and say "see, even so and so agrees with me".