U are not weak minded. In fact you are incredibly strong and brave. You face a medical procedure that is frightening even if it is safe. You dare to do the extremely difficult task of doing the right thing for you and putting your welfare first, something that weak minded individuals like pro lifers refuse to do. If you have other children and a spouse, you put them first, as you should. You are brave, and you have fight inside of you. You chose to excercises you choice, and to proudly say this is my body, my life my right. You refuse to be used, as an incubator to supply some childless couple with a baby and instead make a proud statement, our foster care system is overfilled with less than perfect children who would love to call you mom and dad, take one of them home. You refuse to bring another child into the world into poverty, or an abusive home or to make your rapist a daddy.
You took a stand, you did what you had too, and I salute u for it.
And for those prolifers who are appalled, I have only this to say to you,
U are just 1 unwanted pregnancy away from being prochoice. Never say never, I have had friends who were just as prolife as you and had a situation they cld not handle and suddenly became prochoice.