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Hate sleeping next to a cheater!!

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So my "husband" has been acting funny, distant, snappy for about a month now and I suspected he was talking to someone else. I started.looking into free legal advice because he was saying stuff about divorce custody and the whole deal so I wanted to be a whole lot more ahead of him and got appts for free legal advice. Of course since they are.free the appts were 5 weeks away. I was very patient and he started to get better some days apologizing but mainly only when he wanted sex. I was a little hopeful but after doing some snooping I found he had another phone line and is with a 19yr old. Mind you he is 29, nothing wrong with that in whatever other situation but we have a daughter and you would think he would be smart enough to think about her and the things he would not be happy about if she dated someone in this circumstance like her dad. I was thinking about not going to the legal appts because things seemed to be going ok but now that this happened and they are next week I am deff going to go. I just hate having to pretend everything is ok and sleep next to him!!!! I would reallu just like to blow up on him!!!
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by on Jul. 21, 2012 at 3:19 AM
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MamaLub
by Gold Member on Jul. 21, 2012 at 9:49 AM
Do you have the money to file? Will you tell him after the appointment? What if he wants to work it out?
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dilateyourmind
by on Jul. 21, 2012 at 9:51 AM

UGH that sucks. It is sooo different than it used to be. Used ot be if you cuaght your man doing soemthing like that, you had every right to kick his ass to the curb. Now  you have to wait and do it properly. I had to live with m ine for a month after I filed, because in my state if I left with the child it was considered abandonment. WTF ever..He thought he was freakin Hitler in the end.

midnight_storm
by Gold Member on Jul. 21, 2012 at 9:55 AM
I'm so sorry hun. I can't imagine what you are going through. As hard as it is, I think your doing the right thing by keeping calm and getting everything in order first.
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