I and jealous & hate the dog!!! So long, I need to vent!!!
Miraculously, the dog we ended up havin to keep.... He changed overnight. He was potty trained, sweet, calm, perfect!!! DH fell in love with him. Now he does not do anything without the dog. He comes from a wealthy family and helps run his fathers business so he works from home (as do I) and he spends every waking moment with the dog, and it seems like the dog hates me ( i cant figure out why because i have Never been anything but wonderful and sweet to this dog). I think it Might be that i dont spoil & treat the dog like DH does, so the dog doesnt like it.
After a month of feeling neglected and jealous ( it sounds so stupid I know), I couldn't take keeping my feelings in anymore, so I told DH how I felt. He said that was the most ridiculous thing he had ever heard, got insanely upset and said "fine I will get rid if my best friend because YOUHATE HIM!!!" of course I didn't let it happen because first of all I would have to hear him rub It in my face for the rest of my life and 2ndly, my kids are attached to the dog. Now that dh knows I feel this way he does things like lay the dog right In between our faces in bed at night, cuddle with the dog all the time while saying stupid shit to the dog like "your mOmmy hates you and she wants u to sleep on the floor, why don't we make he sleep on the flOor?!" then just smothers the dog in kisses and lets the dog lick all over his face right in front of me, he does it intentionally to upset me, Hurt my feelings, and piss me off... It works. I am at the point now where i completely ignore the dog, he doesnt exist to me i refuse to feed him, bath him, pick up hos shit, or take him
Tothe vet, dh has made it more than clear that it is his dog, but he has the nerve to get upset if i dont help out with the teaponsibilities of having thIa dog!!! Dh is MY husband not our dogs!!!! I have 8 years in this family on this dog!!! Ughhhhhhh!!!!
I can't take it anymore. I don't want a divorce or anything but he seriously tells this dog he loves him more than he tells me he loves me. Rolling over in bed at night crying myself to sleep because he is cuddling with his dog instead of me. We rarely have sex anymore bc I am so not comfortable with the dog in the bed while I'm naked getting my nasty on!! And I know there is not another woman because we both work from home and are together 24/7..... But there
Is definitely another love in his life.... The fucking dog.
Am I being stupid and over reacting?! Is DH right when he said I'm ridiculous with my feelings regarding this situation. I want my dh back, the one who loves ME more than anything in this world, the man who can't keep his Hands off ME, not the dog. And i swear on my life there Is no beastiality thing going on, he is just so attached to dog, it really is sickening. Is he trying to push me away and make me leave? Has anyone had this problem before? What do I do? I can't divorce him because of a dog... That sounds so stupid!!! I feel bad but I have dreams that the dog runs away or someone breaks into our house and takes him. Terrible, I know =\
Help me please!!!! :'-(