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DH spanked our 3 month old...**UPDATE**

Anonymous
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For crying. DS was upset for some reason (turned out to be really bad gas) and my DH was trying to calm him. But he got so frustrated with DS that he spanked him.
I turned and yelled to him,"that didn't help anything! You only made him cry harder."
DH said that DS needs to learn to be quiet when we are frustrated.
He is only 3 months old! WTF!!

**Update**
I called CPS and they are on their way to help. I'm staying at my parents house with DS for now.
An no.. This is not a troll. This is real life. I will update more as I know more.
Posted by Anonymous on Jul. 21, 2012 at 6:38 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jul. 21, 2012 at 6:46 PM
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So you dated a brainless moron, married a brainless moron, and reproduced with a brainless moron ...   wow, not impressive

Mrs.Winchester
by on Jul. 21, 2012 at 6:46 PM
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What your husband did is child abuse.  He obviously has no idea how to handle small children.  I would seperate from him before he does something worse.  What's he going to do when your child is a toddler and is hitting, biting, or talking back? 

leanne_7845
by Silver Member on Jul. 21, 2012 at 6:46 PM

Fuck that shit man!!  What exactly did he think he was accomplishing by spanking a 3mo baby??  I woulda done more than yell at the mother fucker, thats for sure!  You could bet your ass I'd have been on the phone with the cops!

tpeake
by Member on Jul. 21, 2012 at 6:47 PM

Oh hell no, Dont let him get away with this, its not behavior issues at that age, wrong to even think this, they cant be spoiled at this age. 3 or 4 maybe a little swat but defininately not this age. He needs parenting classes, call local hospitals and just ask if and where

HisMommy4Ever
by on Jul. 21, 2012 at 6:47 PM

Oh my gosh. I feel you. My man did the same shit when our son was like 5 months or 7. I don't remember. It pissed me the fuck out that I cried. To this day I still can't forget the face my son had...he was scared. Like wtf? he's little....! My son is 2 now and he still does the same thing....of course our son is bigger to understand but I wasn't raised like that so I don't like how he wants to spank him for everything. :(

unusualmom
by Gold Member on Jul. 21, 2012 at 6:47 PM
GASP! So wrong, so wrong, so wrong.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jul. 21, 2012 at 6:47 PM
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I hope you packed you are your babbys stuff and left and if you didn't I hope one of these fine ladies figures out who the hell you are and reports your husband for child abuse.
ColtsFan1912
by Panhead on Jul. 21, 2012 at 6:47 PM

& please don't ever leave your baby alone with him. The fact he spanked an innocent baby for doing what babies do *cry* IS appalling.

A guy i went to school with shook his beautiful baby to death trying to "teach him to be quiet" 


Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jul. 21, 2012 at 6:47 PM
Wtf is right! Don't leave him alone with the child. Leave him!
anyotherday
by Platinum Member on Jul. 21, 2012 at 6:47 PM

That is abuse. 

I would NEVER let him hold or be alone with my child again... and yes I said MY child, because the second my husband laid his hand on our INFANT he would become a nonperson in my home. 

And he'd be taking a parenting class if he ever wanted to get back in my good graces


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