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Anonymous
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When a man cheats, why contact the other woman? He is the one who betrayed you. What do you expect her to say? Just wondering
Posted by Anonymous on Jul. 21, 2012 at 6:46 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jul. 21, 2012 at 7:02 PM
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I can't answer because I happen to agree with you completely.

Rach7224
by Silver Member on Jul. 21, 2012 at 7:03 PM
I agree.
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April620
by Platinum Member on Jul. 21, 2012 at 7:04 PM

I agree, imo it would be embarrassing to contact the other woman

arpazia
by Gold Member on Jul. 21, 2012 at 7:05 PM
Can't answer this.
I've never been cheated on.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jul. 21, 2012 at 7:06 PM
Yeah I agree it's completely a waste of energy. The OW will never feel guilty ever no matter whatever mean insults are thrown her way. Pointless.
LampPost
by Gold Member on Jul. 21, 2012 at 7:06 PM
Idk. To let her know that together they destroyed a family? To make sure she knew he wasn't single?
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justme782
by on Jul. 21, 2012 at 7:09 PM
To tell her she can keep his ass lol
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Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jul. 21, 2012 at 7:12 PM
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Yeah, you make a good point, but to answer your question, most of the women who are cheated on that contact the other woman love their so/df/dh so much that they want to almost overlook (?not the right word?) his deception and blame someone else. It's almost just easier to blame someone you don't love/care about and be mad at the 'other woman' then it is to face the reality that your man screwed up big time. AND they want them to know how whory/stupid they are for sleeping with a married man.

Just my thoughts.
Wtshubbypst
by Silver Member on Jul. 21, 2012 at 7:14 PM
I'd contact her so she can come pick up his shit off the front lawn.
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notjstasocermom
by Ruby Member on Jul. 21, 2012 at 7:27 PM

maybe they need closure.

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