I agree, she made no promises to you, he did. 100% of the blame is his.
But I have never been cheated on, so hopefully I wouldn't react differently
Quoting Anonymous:Yeah, you make a good point, but to answer your question, most of the women who are cheated on that contact the other woman love their so/df/dh so much that they want to almost overlook (?not the right word?) his deception and blame someone else. It's almost just easier to blame someone you don't love/care about and be mad at the 'other woman' then it is to face the reality that your man screwed up big time. AND they want them to know how whory/stupid they are for sleeping with a married man.
Just my thoughts.
I've never understood that response, or harrassing her, or getting into verbal or physical altercations with her.I don't understand any of those responses.
to threaten her, or make sure she is home for the drive by.
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