Why is it...

[Anonymous]

When a man cheats, why contact the other woman? He is the one who betrayed you. What do you expect her to say? Just wondering

[Bubbie0809]

I agree, she made no promises to you, he did. 100% of the blame is his. 

But I have never been cheated on, so hopefully I wouldn't react differently

[Anonymous - Original Poster]

I guess I can see that. But whatever the circumstances were, she doesn't owe u anything. He's obviously lying to both women. In the long run, he'll just end up doing it again anyway.

Quoting Anonymous:

Yeah, you make a good point, but to answer your question, most of the women who are cheated on that contact the other woman love their so/df/dh so much that they want to almost overlook (?not the right word?) his deception and blame someone else. It's almost just easier to blame someone you don't love/care about and be mad at the 'other woman' then it is to face the reality that your man screwed up big time. AND they want them to know how whory/stupid they are for sleeping with a married man.



Just my thoughts.

[spicy_n_sweet]

I've never understood that response, or harrassing her, or getting into verbal or physical altercations with her.I don't understand any of those responses.

[Anonymous]

to threaten her, or make sure she is home for the drive by. 

[LoriLou75]

I would want to thank her!

[she_walk_softly]

I would call her to come pick up my half dead stbx out of the road.

[Supervane]

I've never understood that either. I think some women feel its the other womans fault, but really if your man cheats its his fault. The single girl is free and single to do what she pleases, the committed guy is not!

[Anonymous]

I would contact her because I would want answers and closure. It sounds crazy, but that's my choice. I am divorced now and ex hubby is still with the derranged skank. Funny thing is....the skank will call me wanting advice about my ex hubby. I've changed my number so she cannot contact me.

[jshalas89]

If she knows he's married and continues the relationship it's just as much her fault as it is his. I don't agree. If she didn't know I'd call her to inform her and teach her a lesson.