Pulling away from husband (emotional wise)might be kind of long.
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Okay where to start well I guess from the beging.
So my husband and I have been together 6 years, a several kids later. We went threw a rough patch where we brok up for awhile when our oldest was a year and a half. Once we did get back together we jumped in head first due to things going on in our lifes an got married 2 months after being back together. Well every thing has been "ok". We never really talked to much after being back together about when we were split up but lets just say things between us when we were split up were not good we were still living together an we practically hated each other with a white hot passion. Well any ways weve been married two years now an things were never perfect to begin with after we got back together but it just feels like its going for the worse now.
Here lately he has been very mean to me , saying mean things, saying that I'm cheating on him (an no I know for a fact that he isnt cheating he litterally doesnt have the time.) I think he always says im cheating because of stuff that happend when we split up. I feel like he harbors respentment and hate about those things. He juts isnt a very nice person here lately to say the least. I try my best to do every thing that he wants or needs me to do . I try to be a wounderful wife, im a great mother. I feel like lately ive been in a depreasion an that some of it is caused by how he is acting toward me. He is still a wounderful father to our kids. I just dont honestly know what to do, leaving isnt really an option and isnt something I want to do either. I want him to be the person I know and the person I fell in love with , I feel like alot of it is my fault but I dont think he should act the way he does though after all this time. I 'm getting to the point wher eI just want to pull away from him. I dont know Im just venting say what you will I just needed to vent :O(
So my husband and I have been together 6 years, a several kids later. We went threw a rough patch where we brok up for awhile when our oldest was a year and a half. Once we did get back together we jumped in head first due to things going on in our lifes an got married 2 months after being back together. Well every thing has been "ok". We never really talked to much after being back together about when we were split up but lets just say things between us when we were split up were not good we were still living together an we practically hated each other with a white hot passion. Well any ways weve been married two years now an things were never perfect to begin with after we got back together but it just feels like its going for the worse now.
Here lately he has been very mean to me , saying mean things, saying that I'm cheating on him (an no I know for a fact that he isnt cheating he litterally doesnt have the time.) I think he always says im cheating because of stuff that happend when we split up. I feel like he harbors respentment and hate about those things. He juts isnt a very nice person here lately to say the least. I try my best to do every thing that he wants or needs me to do . I try to be a wounderful wife, im a great mother. I feel like lately ive been in a depreasion an that some of it is caused by how he is acting toward me. He is still a wounderful father to our kids. I just dont honestly know what to do, leaving isnt really an option and isnt something I want to do either. I want him to be the person I know and the person I fell in love with , I feel like alot of it is my fault but I dont think he should act the way he does though after all this time. I 'm getting to the point wher eI just want to pull away from him. I dont know Im just venting say what you will I just needed to vent :O(
Posted by Anonymous on Jul. 21, 2012 at 10:59 PM
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on Jul. 21, 2012 at 11:04 PM
Sorry u r going through that, I hope it gets better for u
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