Well dh finally figured out about me and my bf. Found all the emails and had a record of how often and for how long we called each other over the past 2 years!!!!! He called bf's wife and told her
Well both marriages get divorced. I am happier and bf is happier. Exes? Not so much. Anyway my Exdh was the money maker and there is no way I can afford his house so he keeps it. Same goes for bf...the courts granted her the house because she has full custody of their DD and was the "victim" me and dh had no kids together so no problems there.
So here I am in this tiny little townhouse with nothing to do. It sucks. I miss my huge house and pool and I miss bf's nice house with a game room and batting cage :(
Life is much harder now but I don't regret anything. My bf and I are now happily in love.