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I hope my kids have sex before marriage.

Anonymous
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I really think it's cute when people save themselves for marriage, but unrealistic.
I believe that sexual compatibility is important in a well oiled functioning adult relationship.
If my kids wait until marriage and discover no joy with their mate in the bedroom, what then?
Resentment?
Divorce?
Unhappiness?
Sure, sex is not everything, but it is the building block of families. I want my babies to be happy and well loved and to have babies of their own.
I will let my children make their own choices regarding when to have sexual relations.
I will advise waiting for a committed relationship, and for love.
I will advise waiting until after high school graduation.
I will enforce safe sex by providing the necessary tools and knowledge.
My son will be taught to respect his mate and use protection in addition to discussing birth control with her.
My daughter will be taught to responsibly use birth control in addition to having her partner use condoms.

Do you think I'm a bad mother for wanting my children to have sex before marriage? What values are you teaching your children about sex?
Posted by Anonymous on Jul. 22, 2012 at 7:36 AM
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Joels-My-Love
by on Jul. 22, 2012 at 7:38 AM
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I am teaching them modesty nd self purity and to wait until after marriage
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Jul. 22, 2012 at 7:38 AM
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I don't think there is anything wrong with it and I think it's unrealistic to expect them to wait until marriage. Most people don't.
RaynesMommy07
by Ruby Member on Jul. 22, 2012 at 7:39 AM


Quoting Anonymous:

I don't think there is anything wrong with it and I think it's unrealistic to expect them to wait until marriage. Most people don't.
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PeaceLoveZ
by Platinum Member on Jul. 22, 2012 at 7:40 AM
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My son is only about to be 3 so I really am not trying to think about his future sex life! I'm sure he'll have sex before marriage though, the ladies already love him :) LOL.
When it comes to sex, I'm gonna teach him protection, protection, protection, & respect for the girl(s).
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jul. 22, 2012 at 7:40 AM
You don't worry about sexual incompatibility?


Quoting Joels-My-Love:

I am teaching them modesty nd self purity and to wait until after marriage

smurfbitebug
by on Jul. 22, 2012 at 7:40 AM
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I like the way you think. Except I would add to my son that some women lie like hell about birth control even when you think they're just the sweetest girl... and I would warn my daughter never to do so.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Jul. 22, 2012 at 7:41 AM

Yep

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by The Enzyme Helicase on Jul. 22, 2012 at 7:41 AM
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My DD will be a nun and my son will grow up to be a monk. Problem solved.
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SpnFulOfSugar
by Emerald Member on Jul. 22, 2012 at 7:42 AM
I don't have an issue with it as long as they protect themselves. I really hope they get married after college and establishing a career. I would not expect then to remain a virgin that long.
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Aslen
by Ruby Member on Jul. 22, 2012 at 7:43 AM
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I won't say I hope they do.

I just want them to be responsible when they do it

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