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This is crazy I have no clue what to do UPDATE update 2

Anonymous
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I honestly don't know what to do I have a friend staying with us because she got kicked out because she was/is pregnant but the terms were she could only stay here if she was going to keep the baby/babies or give them up for adoption well I'm pretty sure she had an abortion and that's not ok with me her pregnancy test that I bought was broken according to her and the doctor couldn't find the heart rate I'm very annoyed idk what to do any advice to help would be great..... Please keep rude comments to yourself IV been nothing but nice to this girl even though she has done a lot of mean bad things to me and others UPDATE well she didn't come home last night she said she would be home by 1130 so I'm pretty sure she's covering up for what she did and I'm done with her lying games she will no longer be living at my house I feel bad for the 8 month old she already has but she did this to herself and now she has to live with what she did Update #2 she's gone and I found out she's been lying about a lot of stuff
Posted by Anonymous on Jul. 23, 2012 at 8:25 PM
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destiny2nv
by Platinum Member on Jul. 23, 2012 at 8:47 PM
Awe, that's so sad. I don't really know what to tell you. I wish I did. Sounds like she just really needed a place to stay. I would have a serious conversation with her. Get to the bottom of things. She lied and I wouldn't be willing to help a liar. Maybe, tell her she has an X amount of time to find a job.
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destiny2nv
by Platinum Member on Jul. 23, 2012 at 8:48 PM
Maybe get another test and have her take it in front of you.
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ButterMeUp
by Butters on Jul. 23, 2012 at 8:53 PM

Well, it's your house so your rules go. She made her bed. 


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peanutsmommy1
by Platinum Member on Jul. 23, 2012 at 8:54 PM
Way to be a supportive friend....
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ff-princess
by Gold Member on Jul. 23, 2012 at 8:54 PM
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I'd question if she was ever pregnant to begin with.

Maks1mommy
by Ruby Member on Jul. 23, 2012 at 8:55 PM
Hmm this one could be interesting.
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Hannahluvsdogs
by Platinum Member on Jul. 23, 2012 at 8:55 PM
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Why do you have control over what SHE does with HER baby? If she can't even afford a place to live, how could she afford to take care of a child? It sounds like emotional blackmail for you, knowing she's desperate for a place to stay, to tell her she has to keep the baby.

mommy_me
by ~The Three B's~ on Jul. 23, 2012 at 8:56 PM
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 Why would that be a stipulation to you? I find that very strange. Reminds me of that Lifetime movie where the lady takes in the pregnant chick so she can take the baby when it comes

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jul. 23, 2012 at 8:57 PM
How could she get kicked out of a place because she was pregnant? Unless she's a teen that was living with her parents. In that case...you never know it might have been the best thing for her to do. This is coming from a teen mom against abortion. You should be supportive anyway. Help her get on her feet.
Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Jul. 23, 2012 at 9:48 PM
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Sorry I don't support killing and there's always adoption


Quoting Hannahluvsdogs:

Why do you have control over what SHE does with HER baby? If she can't even afford a place to live, how could she afford to take care of a child? It sounds like emotional blackmail for you, knowing she's desperate for a place to stay, to tell her she has to keep the baby.


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