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My body is my body not yours or anyone else's

Anonymous
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There are so many different reasons that you do not have a say on what goes on in my body. First of all, if I get pregnant and I don't want to be pregnant, I'm going to have an abortion. This doesn't concern you in the slightest and the only reason it would is if you crazily push your views in between you and I. Odds are the fetus I abort was not going to be your future best friend, your kids spouse, or the person who figures out a cure for aids or cancer. Odds are u never woud have even met that fetus.

The only way this concerns you is if you are standing outside a clinic screaming at women going inside, making the worst day of their lives even worse, injecting yourself into a situation that doesn't concern you. Standing there is not going to change anything anyway. I have never once seen a woman leave because of your shock value signs or your screaming.

This is my body. I will not keep an unwanted pregnancy to make you feel good. This is my body. My breasts that will be sore, my migraines, my leg cramps, my exhaustion, my morning sickness, my weight gain. The reason for an abortion is not because someone doesn't want a baby, it's because someone doesn't want to be pregnant. A woman who doesn't mind being pregnant will normally pick adoption. Abortion is the cure for pregnancy.

I also would never adopt out a child. I'm not saying you shouldn't if you want to, but I never would. I say people who want to adopt should take an older child. Or a baby with medical issues. There are so many children in the world who need homes. Just because they are older doesn't mean they are any less deserving of a home and a family, and I think it's disgusting that they refuse to adopt these beautiful children. I would never give a baby to a family when I know their nature, and I do, I know they want a perfect newborn, and don't want an older child or a baby with issues.

My womb is not the property of some woman who cannot get pregnant on her own. I refuse to rent it out for the price of my medical bills which I wouldn't have if I chose abortion. Ridiculous.

So again, this is my body, and will remain my body until that fetus can survive outside of my body. Until that time, it is part of my body and if I don't want to be pregnant I won't be.

And before you say it, I do use birth control. But if it fails and we are not ready for a baby, this is my backup birth control.
Posted by Anonymous on Jul. 25, 2012 at 11:40 AM
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owl0210
by Emerald Member on Jul. 25, 2012 at 11:42 AM

I agree but of course there will be those who disagree and feel a man should have control over a woman's body.  

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Jul. 25, 2012 at 11:46 AM
Quoting owl0210:

I agree but of course there will be those who disagree and feel a man should have control over a woman's body.  




Yes I'm sure someone will say that.
militarywife09
by on Jul. 25, 2012 at 11:48 AM
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Ok whatever. Have fun with that.
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GinasMommy412
by on Jul. 25, 2012 at 11:48 AM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Jul. 25, 2012 at 11:51 AM
Quoting militarywife09:

Ok whatever. Have fun with that.



What a well constructed arguement. Rolls eyes
militarywife09
by on Jul. 25, 2012 at 11:51 AM
Lol. Ok troll.


Quoting Anonymous:

Quoting militarywife09:

Ok whatever. Have fun with that.





What a well constructed arguement. Rolls eyes

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Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jul. 25, 2012 at 11:52 AM
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SO YOU KILL BABIES BECAUSE IT'S YOUR BODY? YOU'RE A SELFISH BITCH! YOU'RE JUST AN IMMATURE SHIT STARTER!
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Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Jul. 25, 2012 at 11:53 AM
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Yes because everything I said above sounds like I'm a troll. Again, what a well constructed arguement.
sfkdny
by Platinum Member on Jul. 25, 2012 at 11:53 AM
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I agree completely....I think the anti-choicers should give up on trying to change us pro-choicers minds.  and BTW - you can be anti-abortion for yourself and still be pro-choice

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Jul. 25, 2012 at 11:54 AM
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Quoting Anonymous:

SO YOU KILL BABIES BECAUSE IT'S YOUR BODY? YOU'RE A SELFISH BITCH! YOU'RE JUST AN IMMATURE SHIT STARTER!



The selfish bitches are the ones who refuse to adopt anything but the perfect newborn, not me.
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