I have been dealing with an affair that my husband had a few years back and its been super hard as far as trusting him again and trying to figure out if my marriage is salvagable. So, the other day he asks me to delete his voicemails which I had no problem doing. He has some really immature friends (male) that fill up his inbox at times and leave stupid messages. Majority of the messages were these friends but I came across one from some female. I didn't recognize the voice or the number and she said that it was too bad he couldn't make it out that night and that she hoped he was having as much fun as her. She was referencing a strip club too. I felt so sick to my stomach....I asked him about it and he goes on this tangent about how I'm not doing anything to make him feel loved and how Im not doing anything right....I feel so stupid for trying to make this work....I should have walked away a long time ago....feeling so hurt and don't know what to do anymore.