Not really...I just need your attention. I have a massive problem and need advice. I can't even imagine talking to anyone about this in real life. So in the 90s DH and I were having trouble TTC...we tried everything but couldn't afford treatments and I wanted a baby so bad. One night I was driving home from visiting my family in another state, it was late,it was pouring rain and I was falling asleep. I did the stupidest thing I could think of, I picked up a hitch hiker. He was a little younger than me, he looked like my DH and he was hilarious and easy to talk to. We drove for a while, but I was too tired, and I had a plan. I knew I would be ovulating around that time, so I offered him a hotel for the night and he didn't resist. We had wild sex all night long, it was amazing and fun and he was such a great guy. So in the morning, we went our separate ways, I drove home and never looked back. I conceived my DS that night. I never told my husband, he believes DS is his, but I know in my heart he is not. I would never tear my family apart by telling them.
About a week ago we were all at a local fair and I saw the hitch hiker!!!!! DS is now 15, and does resemble my husband, and I think I had even convinced myself over the years that he was my DH's son, they act so much alike and are so close. That is until I saw the hitch hiker. He was there with his family, a wife and a DS and DD. The DS looked around 7 and was a CLONE of my DS at that age. He saw me, saw my DS, and he knew immediately. His eyes are very unique, they are blue with some green and a single spot of brown, as soon as he saw DS close up, it was unmistakable. He followed me to the bathroom, and cornered me. What could I tell him? I let him know that we had problems TTC, and I needed a baby so bad, and for every single purpose in this life, DS is my DH's, not his. I thanked him for his gift to us, and thought that was it. As I was leaving, I saw DS walking away. I think he may have heard. The biggest problem is that the hitch hiker is trying to contact me on facebook now and says he has rights to know if DS is his, and if he is DS's father, he wants to be in his life. What do I do???????