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if you are a bisexual...

Anonymous
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...and married to a man have kids etc. are you still considered a bisexual? if you've decided to be monogamous with one gender for life is it like selling out?

I'm curious to see answers.
Posted by Anonymous on Jul. 28, 2012 at 12:52 AM
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college.mom
by Mindi on Jul. 28, 2012 at 12:53 AM
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No i'm not selling out. Yes i'm still bisexual
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armywife009
by Platinum Member on Jul. 28, 2012 at 12:54 AM
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I don't know. I still like women, just happen to fall in love with a man. I guess you could say I am pansexual. 

3-Aces2012
by on Jul. 28, 2012 at 12:54 AM
Eh, I don't see it as selling out.
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mistync
by Silver Member on Jul. 28, 2012 at 12:56 AM
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I still get to ocasionally date women. So nope no selling out lol
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Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jul. 28, 2012 at 12:59 AM
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As someone who isn't bisexual. I wouldn't see why marrying, and having children with one gender would mean that you are excluded from being attracted to another gender. 

To me, being bisexual is having an attraction to a man or a woman. If you are straight, and you marry a man, that doesn't mean that you are not attracted to other men, it just means that you found a person who you connect so amazingly well with, and that you want to build a life with, that you (in theory) settle down with them. If you are bisexual, and you marry a man, that doesn't mean you are not attracted to other people, it just means you found that person, who you connect so amazingly well with, that you want to build and grow a life with them.

No biggie.  

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Jul. 28, 2012 at 1:00 AM
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The pansexual term makes more sense to me at least. in that type of case


Quoting armywife009:

I don't know. I still like women, just happen to fall in love with a man. I guess you could say I am pansexual. 


Allie_kat1
by Gold Member on Jul. 28, 2012 at 1:00 AM
Your sexuality is who you are attracted to in general not who you are currently sleeping with/dating. Just because i am engaged to a man and have kids with him doesn't mean i stop finding females attractive, therefore i am still bisexual.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Jul. 28, 2012 at 1:02 AM
Well see in your case that's pretty cool


Quoting mistync:

I still get to ocasionally date women. So nope no selling out lol

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jul. 28, 2012 at 1:02 AM
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bi·sex·u·al

adjective /bīˈsekSHo͞oəl/ 

  1. Sexually attracted to both men and women


Since that's the case, I would say you are not a sell out.  You can still be sexually attracted to the opposite sex and be married. 

Mamie_85
by Platinum Member on Jul. 28, 2012 at 1:03 AM



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No i'm not selling out. Yes i'm still bisexual

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