Why are people always like Wahhhhhhhhhh my dh has to pay child support for the other kids!

[.betty.white.]

I just don't get it.  I don't understand.  Why would you be upset that you married a man who isn't taking care of his kids financially?  Obviously there will be consequences to his actions and by marrying him, you (unfortunately) will have to also pay the price.  But, if the rolls were reversed, wouldn't you want your ex to pay child support??  Sure, your husband can just NOT work, but it will catch up with him and his future wages and tax returns will be garnished. 

Please help me understand.  

[js321]

completely completely agree with you.

[lwalker270]

I don't know.  I completely agree with you.

So here's a bump!

[Shaken1976]

Because some women are selfish bitches.

[hautemama83]

I agree.

However with that said the cs system is fucked up. That is more of the issue.

[.betty.white.]

I truly don't understand.  

First if they got divorced they would be pissed their ex didn't pay.  

Second, how could you have respect for a man that doesn't pay and avoids being a father...

Third, if he will do it to her, he will do it to you.

Quoting Shaken1976:

Because some women are selfish bitches.

[MommeeTo4]

I have no idea, maybe the dh feeds them a story about how evil the ex is so the wife hates her and doesn't went her getting money, even though it is for the kids.

That is my theory

[ozarkdragonfly]

I agree. If a woman doesn't want to deal with a man who pays child support, she need to not marry a man with kids imo

[Anonymous]

We have sd 50/50 always have and we pay for all medical all school stuff any extras we also take her to school and home everyday even though that means my husband loses out on more money since he has to leave work to get her then go back to work. yet we still pay child support. I don't have any issues with it but I may punch bm in the face next time she tells me they are going on vaca with our cs money.

[LovelyJay512]

I agree. These women are dipshits. I be like da fuq?!

[DanaG70]

 I agree,

What I don't get is why there are men that give up their kids for their new spouse/girlfriend. I mean really would you let a man make you give up your kids because he doesn't want to deal with your ex, yet I see it time after time on here.