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my confession, im sure ill be bashed!

Posted by on Jul. 28, 2012 at 3:58 PM
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I can't believe how many of you woman put your husbands before your kids! I saw a post awhile back about who comes first in your life, so many put there husbands over there kids! My confession is I think if you do that there is something seriously wrong with you...

Bash away...;)
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dallas4nu
by Silver Member on Jul. 28, 2012 at 4:00 PM
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Ok. Good to know.


You have your beliefs. We have ours.
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chichiwvu
by on Jul. 28, 2012 at 4:00 PM
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There needs to be a balance. If you always choose your kids over dh, your marriage can suffer.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jul. 28, 2012 at 4:00 PM
I agree.
Liltdanh
by on Jul. 28, 2012 at 4:01 PM
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Kids come first. Not husband. My husband will tell u kids come first too not me. Kids can't fend for themselves like we can as adults. They need the supervision love care all that.
sandra_t00
by ChaChi on Jul. 28, 2012 at 4:01 PM
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I don't see anything wrong. Someone had explained it once on here. If you are a couple and have children, you both have to be happy to have a happy household. If the parents ain't happy, the kids can see/sense that and they won't be happy. Something like that
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squag.mom
by on Jul. 28, 2012 at 4:01 PM

I agree

jennsmith326
by on Jul. 28, 2012 at 4:01 PM
My son is #1. my husband knows this too.
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hautemama83
by Emerald Member on Jul. 28, 2012 at 4:01 PM
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**shrugs** to each their own.

Personally neither come before the other for me. Both my husband and children are #1 priority in different ways.
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P.N._Guin
by on Jul. 28, 2012 at 4:01 PM
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My husband and children are equal in my book. Now, this is because I married someone who treats us beyond wonderful. If he were to hypothetically hurt my children or me, they would always come first, if that makes sense.

The way I see it, when my house is empty of my children there will only be my husband and me left. I have to love him enough to be happy with that :)
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brittney28
by Brittney on Jul. 28, 2012 at 4:01 PM
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We both put the children first and our marriage don't suffer..


Quoting chichiwvu:

There needs to be a balance. If you always choose your kids over dh, your marriage can suffer.

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