So my husband never went to strip clubs before we got together (he was just 19) and the first time he went was this past May for a bachelor party. Of course I wasn't thrilled by the idea, but I dealt with it. His friend called a little while ago and when he got off the phone he said they all went to the strip club last night and he was like "and they didn't invite me!" He also told me not to tell the guys wife that went because he isn't sure if he told her or not. I have a feeling he did not and I'm sure she would be upset that he even went let alone not tell her. Anyway I then said I was glad they didn't invite him and he got a little defensive. He said how he went before and I said it was different because it was for a bachelor party. I did say would you care if I went to a male strip club and he said no and said something about not finding one. I personally feel he would not be comfortable with me really going to one. So how do you feel? I guess I am not 100% how I feel... he almost went with the same guy a month ago, but that plan fell through and I was glad. I honestly feel my husband would think it is stupid if he did actually go for me to be upset.