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My mom has four grandkids. I have three, my brother has one. At my nephews birthday party my mom gave him a letter (he was turning 12) saying his college would be paid for!! Then she said to me, we have a fund for D, (my oldest who is 14) as well. I said what about dd and ds4? She said well, you chose to get with a black man and have children out of wedlock so we chose not to pay for their college!!! I am sooo mad. I know she never agreed with my relationship with SO, even though he is a good man and we have been together 8 years, but COME ON. How is that the kids fault? Would you be mad or just greatful she is paying for at least one kid to go to college?