I just found out some really bad news Edit 3 why am I the bad guy???

[Anonymous]

My 17 yo dd made some whorish decisions. She just told me and her dad that she's pregnant. I noticed that she has been really sick this week and her doctor appointment is on Monday. We asked her who the father was and she said she didn't know...it could be between a number of guys. I asked her how many and she said I would throw up if I knew. I know abortion would be the easy way out and that's what she wants to do but were not going to let her do that. She made her decisions and has to live with them just like we did. Her father and I had her when we were 15. I told her it would be a tough road and she still can do everything she wanted...college and all she would just have to do it with a baby on her hip. We still love her but were highly disappointed. I don't know where I went wrong...

She could get an abortion if she really wanted to. I am aware of the laws...but if she denies me my first grandchild for her own selfish reasons she can say bye bye to mom and dad paying for college. We were going to get her a new car but that's definitely out of the question if she gets an abortion.

We are supporting her. We're just not giving her the option of killing a baby. I know all of you think I'm a terrible mother but I am now considering this my blessing. DH and I have been trying to conceive for the longest. This opportunity fell in our lap. Since she don't know who the father is anyway we don't have to worry about some little punk kid think that e wants to play "daddy". You don't understand how hard it is to want another baby and not be able to have it. This baby will be very much loved and will have everything it ever wants. Dd will go to college and be a successful adult. Everybody wins.

There is no way I can read all of these replies! I will have to read them when I have spare time. I can't believe most of you. I just found out my child is having a child. Just because I decided she would keep it and I woul take it on as mine to raise doesn't mean that I don't deserve a little compassion. Have a heart people.

[baileymarie723]

Yeah I was told by like 10 people that the edit was made, lol.

Quoting ILoveAsherAthan:

She changed it. You just got here late in the game. It's cool though.

Quoting baileymarie723:

She didn't say "whore", she said "whorish decisions".

Quoting ILoveAsherAthan:

A whore? That's incredibly unfair. She is a child whom had a lapse in judgement. She obviously had too much time on her hands and not enough supervision if she was with a lot of guys.

[Anonymous]

Better for the baby to be adopted than to end up sucked up and thrown in a sink.  It is disturbing that you called your own daugher "whorish", you seem rather self-absorbed and bitter.  Perhaps if you truly love this baby you will encourage your daughter to either raise it as her own or have it adopted by a couple who have been vetted and have been determined to be affectionate and competent parents.