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PEOPLE PLEASE CONTROL YOUR KDS

Posted by on Jul. 29, 2012 at 1:27 PM
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In public...i am in the cafe at the hospital & there is family sitting beside me with 2 kids, a boy & a girl. The little girl is a patient and the little boy is not & he is showing his ass 4 real...screaming & yelling and falling all over the please refusing to eat his pizza, and the mom & dad are just like " oh honey please be quiet, you hve to eat" HELLO THAT ISNT WORKING...TRY SOMETHING ELSE JEEZE....i would NEVER let my kids act that way in public EVER they know better!!!!
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BEXi
by BEXi on Jul. 29, 2012 at 1:28 PM

.........How old are yours?

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jul. 29, 2012 at 1:29 PM
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Some kids just need a good beating to be set straight
MIA0223
by Ruby Member on Jul. 29, 2012 at 1:30 PM
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Sounds like he may be dealing with a lot emotionally with his sister being in the hospital don't you think?
Ignore it.
He is a kid going through things he probably doesn't understand and is acting out like 4 year old tend to do!
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Cassidysmom611
by Silver Member on Jul. 29, 2012 at 1:31 PM
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Wow, I hope you learn to get off your high horse. People who judge make me crazy. My youngest who is 2.5  has autism, sometimes if she is having a melt down or over whelmed there is no "trying something else". You do not know what is going on with that little boy- Sorry all kids can't be perfect like yours. 

MamaBear2cubs
by Nikki on Jul. 29, 2012 at 1:33 PM
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They probably don't feel comfortable beating his ass in the middle of the cafeteria.

emandab
by Silver Member on Jul. 29, 2012 at 1:35 PM
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I'm not defending them persay but kids have meltdowns.  When they have a meltdown at home it is much easier to deal with.  In public, not so much.  They can't send the kid to the corner or timeout, they can't spank, they can't just leave, they can't yell cause someone will call cps in a heartbeat.  I'd probably find a bathroom to take him to, but with their dd being in the hospital they are probably just drained.

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jul. 29, 2012 at 1:37 PM

There are different parenting styles to hold what you would have done to the standards of others in ridiculous. Was it appropriate ? Of course not, but the parents were not ignoring it they were simply handling it the way they decided to. For all you know that boy might have been autistic, he could be stressed over his sister, he could be hyperactive, or he might just be a kid who is having fun and being a little vulgar as children often are. so PERSON PLEASE STAY OUT OF THE LIVES OF OTHERS BEFORE IT IS YOU WHO IS GETTING JUDGED.

mrs.kimmons0320
by Bronze Member on Jul. 29, 2012 at 1:37 PM
My kids are not perfect by NOOO MEANS my dd is 6, her little brother is in the hospital and she has had her meltdown at the hospital and i hav had to take her out of the room. I can tell the diff in a kid with autism ny nephew has it, thia little kid s just pissed at his parents & i am not judging just stating what i see!!! Regardless if there was an issue they should have taken him out & calmed him down. I have been in this hospital for a month with my son, i ait in a room full of screaming babies day in & day out, the cafe at lunch time is my escape & ijs this is a hospital, ppl need to be curtieous of other's as well!!
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momof4boyz1girl
by Platinum Member on Jul. 29, 2012 at 1:38 PM

Wow...sounds like the kid is in control of the parents.

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jul. 29, 2012 at 1:41 PM

Sounds like a nurse needs to come over and give that kid a shot in the ass that will knock him out :P ;) lol  Breathe, mama :)  Be thankful it's not your kid and that you are a parent who isn't afraid to discipline.  Your kid will turn out much better in the long run for it.

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