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he says he has no more patience for our son?

Anonymous
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So we had our son 6 months ago, my first his 2nd if it matters? He hasn't seen his daughter in years and years they decided adoption was best because they were so young. 12 an 13!! We are 23 and 24, both have jobs and in a decent situation as far as finances. Well our baby has been very needy and crying constantly. This is all new he normally is always happy. This morning Hubby said he has no more patience for him :(
Posted by Anonymous on Jul. 30, 2012 at 11:40 AM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Jul. 30, 2012 at 11:41 AM
Wow. Like really wow. He should not be a dad. He could end up hurting your baby. Id get baby far away and as fast as possible.

And wtf 12 and 13?!
lovinglife0682
by on Jul. 30, 2012 at 11:42 AM
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Your son is probably teething. I would tell your husband to grow up and act like a parent. They get harder not easier.
KRIZZ25
by Gold Member on Jul. 30, 2012 at 11:44 AM
TELL HIM TAKE A BAKE.. WEN UR A PARENT U HAVE THEM DAYS .
Kris_PBG
by on Jul. 30, 2012 at 11:50 AM

That is kind of scary...

Did he mean he just needed a break for a few minutes?

Mel0dy
by Ruby Member on Jul. 30, 2012 at 11:54 AM
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 I dont think he ment it in a bad way. When I baby is teething or going through a grow spirt it can be very hard on the head. maybe he needs a little break. I can't believe the replies to this post. It dont seem like hes going to hurt the baby just sounds like he needs a break just like ALL PARENTS

Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Jul. 30, 2012 at 11:54 AM

Wow ladies, back off.  My kids are 8 and 10 and my patience left years ago and NEVER CAME BACK LOL.  It has nothing to do with how much you love your kids.  At least he's honest...I would be loving towards him and maybe try to make things easier for him for awhile.  Having your first baby is hard work and doesn't just come naturally, esp. for a dad.

lwalker270
by Ruby Member on Jul. 30, 2012 at 11:55 AM

Maybe your son is teething or not feeling well.  

My oldest was a very high-needs baby and I understand how easy it is to get frustrated.

With that said, crying is the only way they have to communicate with us.  If it bothers DH, he needs to take a break, but he also needs to understand that he's a baby and crying is what they do.


Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Jul. 30, 2012 at 11:55 AM
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Yes!  Maybe he just needs to get baked!

Quoting KRIZZ25:

TELL HIM TAKE A BAKE.. WEN UR A PARENT U HAVE THEM DAYS .


EmilysMom2010
by Ruby Member on Jul. 30, 2012 at 11:58 AM
He was probably just venting. Don't be too hard on him. Just hang in there. When I get weak my husband helps pick me back up. And when I can tell he is having a bad day I try to relieve the preasure a little.
This too shall pass
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EmilysMom2010
by Ruby Member on Jul. 30, 2012 at 11:58 AM
Bwahahahahahahahahahahaha
That's what I thought this said too! Ha just get the man a joint.


Quoting Anonymous:

Yes!  Maybe he just needs to get baked!


Quoting KRIZZ25:

TELL HIM TAKE A BAKE.. WEN UR A PARENT U HAVE THEM DAYS .


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