So my ex hubby calls my phone everyday. He want talk to the kids. But he calls me when I'm work and 8 to 9 at night. I told him if he want talk to kids to call between 3 and 630. But he won't listien. So I stop answering my phone when he calls at that time. Friday came and he yelled at me sayin why I didn't anwser my phone and bla bla. I told him to call two to three time a week and stop calling my phone every dam day. Plus I told him call when I told him to call and he talk to the kids. But he still want yell at me so I hung up. So one are friends told me to read his fb. So I did and it was sayin that I never let talk to his kids and I'm a bitch and all this. So u know what I'll show him a bitch I'm not going answer my phone untill it time for him or mostly his dad picks them up every other weekend when it's there time with them. My kids are ready see how their dad really is and they don't even ask to talk to him an if they do talk it hi dad bye dad I love u an that's it. Hell he ain't even seen them in 3month his dad has been the one taking them. I'm I wrong for doing that
Posted by Anonymous on Jul. 30, 2012 at 11:44 AM
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on Jul. 30, 2012 at 11:49 AM
What does you custody agreement say?
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on Jul. 30, 2012 at 11:52 AM
I'm sorry that you and your kids are going through this, but you should encourage and facilitate your kids to see and talk with their dad. It isn't about you or your ex. It is about the kids that you two have together. You should go out of your way to talk about their father in a positive light.
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by Anonymous - Original Poster
on Jul. 30, 2012 at 11:53 AM
It don't say nothing about phone calls. I got full custody of my kids. It also says I'm the one that make all the this with doctor, school and all that. He just pay child support and support get kids every other weekend. And two weeks out the summer.
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What does you custody agreement say?
by Anonymous - Original Poster
on Jul. 30, 2012 at 11:55 AM
I don't say nothing to them about their dad if I do it to his face or if I'm talking to someone they ain't around.
Quoting Momof5kids84:
I'm sorry that you and your kids are going through this, but you should encourage and facilitate your kids to see and talk with their dad. It isn't about you or your ex. It is about the kids that you two have together. You should go out of your way to talk about their father in a positive light.
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on Jul. 30, 2012 at 11:57 AM
no you are not wrong at all.
He is calling when he knows that he can't talk to them.
He is calling to talk to you ..not the kids.
And has not seen them in 3 months? that is insane.
So no i don`t blame you one bit for not wanting to answer his calls.
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on Jul. 30, 2012 at 12:01 PM
Be the bigger person. Don't be the one in the way of them talking to their dad so they can never blame you. Plus you don't want him to avoid calling you if something happens on their weekend
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on Jul. 30, 2012 at 12:13 PM
Then file harassment charges against him if he's getting abusive towards you under the guise of trying to contact the kids.
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It don't say nothing about phone calls. I got full custody of my kids. It also says I'm the one that make all the this with doctor, school and all that. He just pay child support and support get kids every other weekend. And two weeks out the summer.
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What does you custody agreement say?
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