Wow, he's abusive. I would leave. Don't let a man treat you like that. That type of behaviour is a deal breaker in a marriage.
I dont usually say this but you need to leave!! take your kids and go. dont look back!
I'd be gone not sitting somewhere crying.
So.. this is what's going to happen. Either your going to grab the kids and leave, or you're going to stay. Either way, he's going to apologize and say he didn't mean it, and he was just "joking" or "angry" about whatever it is you supposedly did. Then either you are going to believe him, or your not. If you believe him, you'll stay (or go back). If you don't, you'll leave (or stay away). But next time (and there will be a next time), it will be worse. A lot worse.
Get in touch with your local YWCA, they have a battered women's shelter. Even though he did not put his hands on you, he threatened you. They can get you into a safe place or refer you to someone who can. Please take all safety precautions. Follow your gut, not your heart. Listen to the voice in your head that is telling you to turn right when you should be going straight, because he might be following you. Please be very careful. Please seek counseling for yourself and your children. You will need it.
Good luck to you.
Wow, that is scary...I'm so sorry :(
Have you thought about leaving? Calling family to see if there's any place you and the kid(s) could stay?
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