Df n I have our own home. Mil had to move in because of her divorce. Sil n her baby stayed with fil. Since mil moved in there has been nothing but drama and disrespect from sil. She is a shitty mom and dumps her kid on mil every weekend and several times a week. There is always drama because she doesn't take care of her baby or is doing drugs or having a breakdown ect. She has no respect for me or df or our home and mil allows it and defends her. Df n I are sick of it. We can't even sit in our home and quietly watch a movie after DD goes to bed because sil come waltzing in and takes over the house. She leaves a huge mess for me to clean and her baby wakes DD up and all of us up when sleeping! We have talked to mil and sil numerous times but nothing changes. Today I get told...not asked told by mil that fil lost his job and when he looses his apartment sil and baby will be moving into my and dfs home!!! Because she has no where to go...wtf!! How is this our issue? We work and provide a home for our kid y can't she do the same!?!? Hell we provide mil a home for only 200 a month and that doesn't even cover the increase in utilities because sil is over several times a week using our shower for over an hour at a time and leaving every light on and eating all our food but we are supposed to just let sil n her baby move into our small three bedroom house for free!!!! I'm done I've had it if they move in I'm moving out! I want my damn house back and apparently no one will listen to me or df so let's see if mil can afford to pay and support the house on her own!!!!
Also mil hasn't said this to df yet because she knows he will flip out on her and tell her fck no! And if shes that worried about sil then get a place with her...of course mil won't listen ..she never does! She's just going to move sil in anyways without consulting df.