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I peeked! a little TMI***

Anonymous
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Ok so my husband and I do a tri-monthly special thing for each other that involves something sexy, whether it be toys or lingerie. It's supposed to be a surprise for each other and to keep our sex life fun, but I went on his email to "peek" and I am sooo nervous now. Why you may ask?... He brought anal beads..... I am not into that at ALL! Idk what to do when he asks to use them on him or on me! It's definitely not my thing and Really I just think it's gross...What to do??!?!

I'm pretty Vanilla :/

Posted by Anonymous on Jul. 30, 2012 at 7:04 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Jul. 30, 2012 at 7:06 PM

BUMP!

jojomommy
by Member on Jul. 30, 2012 at 7:07 PM
6 moms liked this

I would say honey thats really nice you go first 

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jul. 30, 2012 at 7:07 PM

Try it just once and if you hate it, don't do it again! 

keisha613
by Silver Member on Jul. 30, 2012 at 7:07 PM

Hopefully he's buying them to use with you, if not, you got bigger problems on your hands.

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Jul. 30, 2012 at 7:07 PM
Do it!!!
jojomommy
by Member on Jul. 30, 2012 at 7:09 PM

I would get some lube and atleast try them dont ever force them and if you try them and hate them then never again then buy the smallest C*ck ring you can find and make him wear it 

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Jul. 30, 2012 at 7:09 PM

but it's disgusting! 

Quoting Anonymous:

ok, this is what i do and i always recommend it. upon initial insertion, bear down really hard (like you're going to fart), the suck your rectum inward. works like a charm for anal sex, too. ;)


Rain2Rinse
by Gold Member on Jul. 30, 2012 at 7:09 PM
Relax, use lots of lube, and be open to new experiences! You can't truly dislike it if you've never tried it. If you hate it, hey, you guys are all about trying new things. So... He shouldn't buy anything like it again. Lol
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grlofhalloween
by on Jul. 30, 2012 at 7:10 PM

idk i like a little anal play but i dont like stuff too deep. lol

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Jul. 30, 2012 at 7:10 PM

I do feel bad for him buying it though and we never use it....idk what to say

Quoting Rain2Rinse:

Relax, use lots of lube, and be open to new experiences! You can't truly dislike it if you've never tried it. If you hate it, hey, you guys are all about trying new things. So... He shouldn't buy anything like it again. Lol


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