Whish is why I am posting anonymously. I recently went to visit family in a different state and in about two years we will be moving there!!!!! I can't say where we are moving or where we are moving from because then it would be too easy for friends to know who I am. I know I'm a terrible friend if I don't tell them, I am also a terrible girlfriend because I can't even tell my boyfriend and I feel terrible.
Here is why I can't tell anyone:
My ex husband is a very abusive controlling person, and this is the only why my parents and I could think of to get my kids and I away from here safely. I have sole custody (full leagal custody) of my kids and I was told by the judge that it is up to me if I want my ex to see my kids. Everyone already knows that I planned on moving anyway to the next state over (including my boyfriend) so it's not like me moving is going to be a big surprise, it's just where I am moving to. I really feel that this is what will be best for my kids.