Breast feeding cover up for GODS SAKE!! *edited**
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News Flash your boobs are food and nourishment for your baby period. Not my kid/husband or me. I have no complaints over someone breast feeding but when your at a phone store and you walk up to buy a phone and just lift your shirt exposing your Boob uncovered in public and feed your baby that's asinine!!! Just like you choose to Bfeed your kid I should have the choose whether or not I see your BOOBS!! So should my kid who BTW knows anatomy but I don't show her my boobs so why the freak should I allow her to see yours. Also to a man its just boobs not food for a baby sorry!! Its not society they are also sex organs!!! Sure your husband can decipher the diff bec its the norm in your house but not in all house holds. Have respect is all Im saying!! Bfeed?? Sure!! NP!! But cover up its rude!!! Besides when you see older kids like extreme Bfeeding how can I explain to my kids about pedophiles when there kid is 8 and in public Bfeeding??? UM no!!! That's disgusting!!! So yeah have your opinion but lets meet half way. I don't Bfeed but if you do that's fine just cover up!!!
Signed,
Sincerely the other half of society!!!
*I dont mind if you do not pull out your whole boob and nipple for the whole world to see so thats NOT what I mean, and I dont mean you need a blanket just be decent*
*Also telling me to look another way is bullcrap!! Thats not fair your making a choice for me if I walk in a place in public and you wip your entire boob out???? Once me or my child has seen it, its no longer my choice but yours!!!***
Can someone show me exactly how to "whip" out a boob? I've seen a ton of mothers breastfeed and not one of them has been able to perfect "whipping" out a boob to nurse a baby. I've seen plenty of nursing moms and so have my young son and daughter, I've never seen anything more than what you'd see in a low cut top on a 16yr old who wants to dress in skimpy clothes(which is apparently more acceptable in today's world). And anytime my children have asked me questions it's easily answered with "The baby needs to eat." or "That mommy is feeding her baby." or "Babies get hungry and some mommies use bottles to feed babies and some mommies use their breasts"
LOL - is not just "bonding". It is FEEDING a child.
Do you bond with your child each and every bottle? Or sometimes are you just feeding your child? SMH. using that arguement against nursing is so silly in my opinion.
Like I have said - I did not use a cover with ds2. He would not nurse under a cover. I certainly was not going to starve my child.
I fail to see the big deal. No one ever saw a thing while I was nursing. It was far more of a "spectacle" when I used a cover with ds1.
Quoting Anonymous:
Quoting -KC-:
Theres so many creeps these days I dont know why women wouldnt want to cover up. I BF, and dont even like doing in in public. I use to pump when I went out with my baby. I feel uncomfortable BFing in public point blank. I dont even like more than one person near me when I BF. Im weird, but at the same time having my own space is a big thing for me.
This is another point of mine. Its very sweet but its also a bonding moment right?? Why take that away?? I am not trying to be rude or disrepectful by all means Bfeed but have some respect!! I dont even care if I saw part of your boob of course I would look away!! Y would I stare?? Freaking weirdos calling me a creeper??? I just dont want to see all of it!!
Quoting Anonymous:
AMEN!!! I am so sick of self righteous bf advocates. There is nothing wrong with breast feeding, there is something wrong with feeling like it gives you the right to flop your tit out wherever you please. It's called being discret and having some class.
Sincerely,
A non-breastfeeding mom who thinks people who complain about a beautiful natural thing are stupid.
For fuck sakes.... Even they get it.
"I try to take one day at a time, but sometimes several days attack me at once."
I have three boys, didn't breastfeed and I don't care.
God forbid we raise young men who think of breasts as more than play things. What's BS is that most children are more understanding about this than many "grown" women here.
Quoting Anonymous:
It IS rude to bf and nit cover up. I have four boys and don't need them seeing that. Forget that look the other way bs... IT IS RUDE. COVER YOURSELF
That's the ugliest name everrrr!!!
Do you consider this short?