Small back story. Mom got pregnant and they split. Mom kept me from him so I've heard from others, he doesn't speak poorly of her to me ever but she does about him all the time. I was told my stepdad was my bio dad until I was 16 and I asked family on a hunch. I was told the truth by some family. Year later she admitted he had a son also. Fast forward to 22 and I found out his name and finally found him in prison. Two months later found my brother. Well he got out of prison about four months ago and he is back in now! Just got an email from him! I'm pissed but I won't be like very one else and vent to him about how bad he fucked up since he already know but I just want to rip his head off. How the hell do I deal with these emotions? The disappointment? Our relationship is new still(2 yrs) i don't know how to deal with this but have no one to talk with about it without my mother going off about him, my brother barely speaks to me because he still believes I wanted nothing to do with him (my mother words), his parents won't speak to me and wont claim him (he is skinny so the swear he was switched in the hospital), what do I do?