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Fine Dining and Lesbians. EDIT

Anonymous
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I was discussing with my girlfriend our valentines plans. Yes, its a few months away but I want to start planning now because I want to go to a fine dining restaurant which means i have to look some up and we're long distance and since shes coming here for xmas i thought i'd go there for vday so i have to save up money for a plane ticket, so yes i have to plan now lol.

Anyways she dresses more like a tomboy. Not very girly, doesn't wear make up or girly clothes but her clothes aren't baggy either. She does dress nice. Well, I was telling her how i found a restaurant in San Francisco that has a dress code (elegant and classy). She asked how should she do her hair since she will be in a tux and i said "idk forget that, dress like a girl. I mean, you are a girl and very pretty one." after going back and forth for 5 minutes she finally agreed to that. She is really pretty and beautiful when shes dressed up like a woman.

Now i'm wondering what people will think seeing two lesbians. I don't really care what they think but i don't want to be judged and have my food spit in either lol.

So if you were in a fine dining restaurant and two gay people (whether it be two women or two men) walked in, how would you react if you would react at all?

After i posted this, i realized that in SF its ok to be gay. *facepalm*

Posted by Anonymous on Aug. 5, 2012 at 4:09 PM
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areles
by Platinum Member on Aug. 5, 2012 at 4:11 PM
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this is entirely moot.  you're going to be in SAN FRANCISCO.  the gay-friendliest city in the COUNTRY.  you guys could make out at the table and no one would even glance in your direction.

TraceyMR
by Gold Member on Aug. 5, 2012 at 4:11 PM

I'd smile at them if we made eye contact, otherwise, I'd focus on my husband.

TwinmomAlicia
by Bronze Member on Aug. 5, 2012 at 4:11 PM
It's San Francisco. No one will care. Have fun!
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Anonymous
by Anonymous on Aug. 5, 2012 at 4:11 PM

You are in San Francisco. 

End of story.  

areles
by Platinum Member on Aug. 5, 2012 at 4:12 PM
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p.s. let her wear the tux!

IT'S SAN FRANCISCO.

if there's any place you can be yourselves, it's there.  seriously.  i fucking promise.

Aamy
by Ruby Member on Aug. 5, 2012 at 4:12 PM
Wouldnt care, probably wouldnt even notice, being to busy with my own date.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous on Aug. 5, 2012 at 4:12 PM

 I wouldn't really care. I would rather see a woman dressed nice like a woman in a restaurant like that though...but whatever lol

Behindthelense
by on Aug. 5, 2012 at 4:12 PM

I wouldn't react at all. Just another couple at a restaurant in my opinion. 

asmalltowngirl
by Silver Member on Aug. 5, 2012 at 4:13 PM
I probably wouldn't notice
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NDADanceMom
by on Aug. 5, 2012 at 4:13 PM

Are they having sex on the table?  LOL 

As long as there isnt too much PDA I dont care.  I dont like too much from straight couples either.  Holding hands? yes.  Soft kisses? yes.  Hands in each others clothes?  no. 

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