Angry words

[Anonymous]

How often do you say mean things to your husband?

[ashleighmama]

Sometimes he just needs to be put in his place, kwim? LOL

Quoting Anonymous:

I'm glad I'm not the only one...

Quoting ashleighmama:

This exactly...

Quoting Anonymous:

As often as he pisses me off.

[bradysmom04015]

It may sound boring, but we have been married for 13 years and together for 16 years. It is all because of our love.

Quoting Anonymous:

That's boring.

Quoting bradysmom04015:

Never. We both love and respect each other. We speak to each other respectfully.

[catchup29]

Not often at all.  Can't even remember last time, and visa versa.  We argue of course, but I'm more sarcastic and we uses big intelligent words.  lol

[acidpop]

I try not to say hurtful things to dh. I've done it enough times to know how freaking horrible and guilty I feel afterwards :(

[IWannaLoveAgain]

I try not to use ugly words. I was married to a douchebag who always used words to cut me down... I was in a longterm relationship with a man who treated me right and never ever once called me a name our entire relationship, and I didnt call him names either.. I plan to move that into my relationship with my current SO. Words hurt. Dont use them.

[Bianca008]

 Been together 27 years, I'm not saying we have not had arguments but I do not say mean things to him. We call each other names in a joking manner but never in anger.

[amanda81919]

Today I called him an asshole. Why? You ask...because he said he got a rash on his well you know bc he messed around with a girl last week and made me believe it, then when I was pissed he was like I'm kidding I love you... ughhhh! He tries to make me jealous.

[Anonymous]

A lot of things. Mostly I think I'm just in a different place. I've matured and I realized that some things are just not worth getting upset about. I also feel more secure in my relationship with him. I think a lot of my anger, was really insecurity about the strength of our relationship, so I had a wall up and tried to not let myself love him too much, I guess. He was also an alcoholic for most of our relationship, which didn't help me feel secure, and brought on a lot of anger and resentment towards him.

Quoting Anonymous:

Quoting Anonymous:

Not so much anymore. We are in a different place in our relationship, but a few years ago, it was a daily thing.

what did it take to make the change?

[Bright.Eyes]

Honesty, my Dh and I aren't afraid to hurt each other's feelings every now and again. We are very much in love :)

[chrissy915]

Is he still an alcoholic?

Quoting Anonymous:

A lot of things. Mostly I think I'm just in a different place. I've matured and I realized that some things are just not worth getting upset about. I also feel more secure in my relationship with him. I think a lot of my anger, was really insecurity about the strength of our relationship, so I had a wall up and tried to not let myself love him too much, I guess. He was also an alcoholic for most of our relationship, which didn't help me feel secure, and brought on a lot of anger and resentment towards him.

Quoting Anonymous:

Quoting Anonymous:

Not so much anymore. We are in a different place in our relationship, but a few years ago, it was a daily thing.

what did it take to make the change?