Usually this is not a problem for us. Dh always wants to 69 before sex like even if I want to give him oral and don't want it in return he insists and will flip me around anyways so that's how it always goes but last night he came before we even had sex. It bummed me out because oral is not really my thing. I love to do it for him and it turns me on but most the time when he's doing it to me he sucks too hard and it hurts and I do tell him but I think he's too into it to pay attention. Well this morning he wants to have sex so I get all worked up and not even a few mins and came again! Wth!!! I just want good sex!! I'm going crazy. Does your dh do that?