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Would you want to know?

Anonymous
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Girl signs up for dating site, starts talking to guy who sounds great, claims he is divorced, both times plans were made they were canceled last minute by him, girl does research and cannot find record of divorce, but may have found wife on Facebook. If you were the wife would you want to know your husband was doing this? What would you think of the girl coming to you with this information?
Posted by Anonymous on Aug. 8, 2012 at 10:40 AM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous on Aug. 8, 2012 at 10:42 AM
I would want to know.
alwayskk
by on Aug. 8, 2012 at 10:42 AM

Yes, I would want to know.

Mare1180
by Platinum Member on Aug. 8, 2012 at 10:43 AM
Yes
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wickedfiress
by Gold Member on Aug. 8, 2012 at 10:44 AM
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If I were the woman. I'd simply stop talking to the 'man' from the dating site.

I would not involve myself in his marital problems and drama.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous on Aug. 8, 2012 at 10:44 AM
I would want to know and I wouldn't place any blame on the woman. My "husband" made the choice to seek other relationships, and she came forth with his intentions.
mama_2_jasper
by Gold Member on Aug. 8, 2012 at 10:44 AM
I would want to know. I would be thankful to the girl for telling me too.
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Beenhereforever
by Gold Member on Aug. 8, 2012 at 10:45 AM
I would want to know
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HIJKLM
by Platinum Member on Aug. 8, 2012 at 10:46 AM
I would want to know personally but some think ignorance is bliss...

Be prepared for the wife to flip shit on you though.
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StrangeDays
by Gold Member on Aug. 8, 2012 at 10:46 AM
Me neither. And what if this alleged wife is not actually the wife? Could you imagine getting mistaken for some random dude's wife and getting a message from a girl saying she found your hubby's profile on a dating site? That would stir up unnessacery drama for a couple that may not even have any :-X

Quoting wickedfiress:

If I were the woman. I'd simply stop talking to the 'man' from the dating site.



I would not involve myself in his marital problems and drama.
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mama2gg
by on Aug. 8, 2012 at 10:48 AM
Yes
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