No, none of this is fair or should make anyone happy!!
OK , my husband's little brother is 17 yrs old and he is the most immature foul mouthed nasty spoiled jerk. Well he had a girlfriend for five months and then it comes out that she's pregnant. My husband's step mom is over the moon excited and so are Dh's sisters. No one could understand why DH and I were a little hesitant and reserved and started weighing options. Ultimately we were like, "WOW... this is... just WOW. What are you going to do now?" Well the girl is now almost five months pregnant and they broke up over high school immature fighting. I was talking to DH's step mom and when she told me I really didn't have anything to say about the matter until she said, "I bet you're just thrilled! You weren't happy about them having a baby anyways!" yea that pissed me off so I responded, "you know what?? you're right! I wasn't happy... what's to be happy about this situation? 1) they were only together for five months when she got pregnant. Five months and no they're stuck together forever with this baby. 2) Are you planning on quitting your job to babysit this baby so they both can go to school? Are you going to pay their daycare fees? 3) Neither of them are working, and what kind of job can either of them get at their age? 4) Your son is NOT ready to be a father but guess what he's going to be. 5) Now they're broken up, yea they're going to be mature about the whole thing. You do remember some of their stupid fights right???? no Im not happy at all that this happened, NONE of this is fair, and no one should be happy!! All anyone can do is hold on and deal with it!!!"
Ok vent over.