A family member was arrested for a sexual offense...
My uncle was arrested for molesting a 9 year old girl. He has been in jail for a few months andi just found outthat he will be getting out on August 30th!!
This man has been around me my whole life, He was alwasy the "creepy uncle" but i never really expected this. He as been around my DD and they have played together!!!
Then we found out that this INST THE FIRST TIME!!!
What am i supposed to do?!?!
I mean am i supposed to not attend family functions now incase he will be there? Should i call his PO if he shows up at a family function where children are present??
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Quoting Anonymous:Well, I suppose you should do what you think is right. I don't see a problem with him being around children at family functions, providing the children are under the supervision of their parents. I certainly would not let my children to be around him without direct supervision. However, I would do whatever his parole required - and if his parole required that he not be around children, yes, I would report him if he showed up at a family event.
Quoting AFWifeNMom:
Quoting Anonymous:*offense
I really don't understand the question. "What am I supposed to do?" What do you think you should be doing? What is there to do?sorry i edited my post.
i meant what am i supposed to do now. like what shoudl i do if he shows up at a family event? should i just let me kids be around him(not gonna happen) or should i tell him to leabe, or should i call 911 and report him...
Quoting Anonymous:Well, I suppose you should do what you think is right. I don't see a problem with him being around children at family functions, providing the children are under the supervision of their parents. I certainly would not let my children to be around him without direct supervision. However, I would do whatever his parole required - and if his parole required that he not be around children, yes, I would report him if he showed up at a family event.
Quoting AFWifeNMom:
Quoting Anonymous:*offense
I really don't understand the question. "What am I supposed to do?" What do you think you should be doing? What is there to do?sorry i edited my post.
i meant what am i supposed to do now. like what shoudl i do if he shows up at a family event? should i just let me kids be around him(not gonna happen) or should i tell him to leabe, or should i call 911 and report him...
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Quoting Anonymous:Well, I suppose you should do what you think is right. I don't see a problem with him being around children at family functions, providing the children are under the supervision of their parents. I certainly would not let my children to be around him without direct supervision. However, I would do whatever his parole required - and if his parole required that he not be around children, yes, I would report him if he showed up at a family event.
Quoting AFWifeNMom:
Quoting Anonymous:*offense
I really don't understand the question. "What am I supposed to do?" What do you think you should be doing? What is there to do?sorry i edited my post.
i meant what am i supposed to do now. like what shoudl i do if he shows up at a family event? should i just let me kids be around him(not gonna happen) or should i tell him to leabe, or should i call 911 and report him...
Quoting XJetX:
*takes a seat*
Quoting AFWifeNMom:
For what?? How is this drama?? Why would you need to "take a seat" if you have something to add then say it....if not then why are you going to "take a seat" anyway??
Quoting XJetX:
*takes a seat*
If the law says he can't be around children and you show up at a family function where there are children pick up the phone and call the police because he'd be breaking the law. If it was me, I would make sure that he had not done anyting to my child. I don't know how to ask a small child if Uncle so and so touched her wrong, but it might be a good idea or get a trained individual to ask. You didn't know he was a sicko so don't blame yourself for letting him around your children. If he was around and the law said it was okay, I'd keep my children always in my line of sight. I would hope others would do the same. I would also keep him in my line of sight and if he slunk off somewhere I'd make sure the owner of the house where the funtion was being held knew he was sneaking around and being a creep.
Quoting wulfeyes05:If the law says he can't be around children and you show up at a family function where there are children pick up the phone and call the police because he'd be breaking the law. If it was me, I would make sure that he had not done anyting to my child. I don't know how to ask a small child if Uncle so and so touched her wrong, but it might be a good idea or get a trained individual to ask. You didn't know he was a sicko so don't blame yourself for letting him around your children. If he was around and the law said it was okay, I'd keep my children always in my line of sight. I would hope others would do the same. I would also keep him in my line of sight and if he slunk off somewhere I'd make sure the owner of the house where the funtion was being held knew he was sneaking around and being a creep.
This is easy for me....any event he is invited to I am not going. Simple as that!
I didn't mean to flip out on you, sorry again...
Quoting XJetX:
Lol chill out lady, just saving my spot so I can read it later
Quoting AFWifeNMom:
For what?? How is this drama?? Why would you need to "take a seat" if you have something to add then say it....if not then why are you going to "take a seat" anyway??
Quoting XJetX:
*takes a seat*
Being a SAHM for the past 5 yrs has made me
- AFWifeNMom
on Aug. 8, 2012 at 12:22 PM