Thought I might get your attention. It's true tho..
So when I was 16 I fell in love with another boy in my high school, his name wat Matthew. He was the sweetest guy ever. At the time anyway..He had a juvenile record for selling Acid at school. I had never been in trouble. But I thought he was the coolest guy ever. Then I got pregnant at 17. My family moved to Southern California when I was 4 months pregnant. They said he was a bad person, but you couldn't convince me. Then the beatings began. He was very cruel. He punched me kicked me, bit me, yes I said Bit Me! He would choke me on a regular basis. He threw my down a flight of stairs, and I went into labor with my son Tyler. He punched me in the face in the delivery room. When Tyler was 3 months old, after a particularly awful beating, I boarded a plane to my mother's house in California. He threatened to come find me a kill us both. (2004)
His father found out he had been hurting me and that's why I left. He walked into Matthew's room and shot himself through the heart. I went out to Okla. for the funeral. Matthew was drunk the entire time. Tyler was 18 mo. (2006)
When Tyler was 2, he was sentenced to 5 years in prison for a plethera of charges. He went on an 18 mile high speed chase, ending up in the Elementary School parking lot where children were in class, and attempted to run over a police officer. The officer shot at him twice and missed. (2006)
He got out of prison 2 years ago. (2010) He tried to get full custody of our son. Since Tyler was 10 months, I have been with my husband. When Tyler was 3, we had our daughter. Tyler calls my husband Dad. They are two peas in a pod.
He has had 3 supervised visits with Tyler in the past 2 years. He has been fighting me and the court, saying I am an abusive mother with a drug problem. He and his mother have also called CPS on my family over 50 times. All reports were deemed untrue and the county threatened to sue her for the money for the resources if she made any more false allegation.
(2012)Recently, he was pulled over and taken in on a parole violation for driving under a suspended license. While incarcerated, he and two other inmates killed Anthony Mollman, a man suspected of working with the feds. The attack took place on video for 14 minutes. He was stabbed and Matthew was seen holding the door shut so he couldn't leave the cell with two other inmates inside. Then he was seen handing the a knife. All of this is caught on video.
We have our final court date on Friday. He still wants full custody even though he has been charged with 1st degree Murder in Oklahoma.
It's absolutely ridiculous. I live in a good neighborhood, with great schools. We have lived here in this city all of Tyler's life. My husband takes good care of us.
I know I have nothing to worry about, and I have a good attorney, but isn't it insane how someone can legally attempt to take custody after all of this!?
I'm here to answer questions if you have them!
***So court today..The judge had to leave early so we have another court date on August 24th. He is going to make a 'No Contact' order until DS is 18. Dh want to adopt him and change his last name to match mine, his and DD's. I just want to move on with my life! Ugh.**