My SO and I have been together for just over 4 years. We had a daughter 2 months ago. Well we have been having a hard time. He constantly is over his parents house and with his brothers. He will never invite us with him, he doesn't work. I feel and he knows this, that he should be out looking for a job. Not hanging out with his mom and brothers. I get family is important but he has his own family now. I am close with his mom BTW she is awesome. I just feel he puts his relationship with his mom before his relationship with our daughter and DS. I have tried to talk to him about this over and over. He will just walk away and not talk to me.
I don't want to file but he hadn't helped support her at all. I pay all of our bills, diapers,food,clothes,gas by myself. So today he is at his moms again, and I am going to file while he is gone. I told him I was going to file and we are done. He doesn't believe me. So I guess he will when he sees the papers in the mail.
Before I get bashed I tried to get him to go to counciling with me. He won't. I have tried many different approaches, nothing makes him change.