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Do you consider it selfish...

Posted by on Aug. 9, 2012 at 10:55 PM
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If a mother leaves her partner and never finds love with another person, whether it be her choice not to fall in love again?
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by on Aug. 9, 2012 at 10:55 PM
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SalemWitchChild
by Blessed be on Aug. 9, 2012 at 10:56 PM

No. Just unlucky to find love.

epoh
by Ruby Member on Aug. 9, 2012 at 10:56 PM
:(
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Hannahluvsdogs
by Ruby Member on Aug. 9, 2012 at 10:57 PM

More details? I'm not seeing how that could be selfish.

bearscubed
by on Aug. 9, 2012 at 10:57 PM
Even if it's her choice not to find another partner?

Quoting SalemWitchChild:

No. Just unlucky to find love.

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bearscubed
by on Aug. 9, 2012 at 10:57 PM
No sad faces, missy!

Quoting epoh:

:(
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ittybit2012
by on Aug. 9, 2012 at 10:58 PM
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No.  Some people have no interest in finding someone new.  And then there's the people like me.  I want to avoid that love shit like the plague.

bearscubed
by on Aug. 9, 2012 at 10:59 PM
Let's say a woman left her husband for whatever reason and she has a child. Do you think it'd be selfish if she never found another man to be in her & her child's life?

Quoting Hannahluvsdogs:

More details? I'm not seeing how that could be selfish.

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SalemWitchChild
by Blessed be on Aug. 9, 2012 at 10:59 PM

Why would it be selfish? If it's her choice she has a right to live her life in happiness. No one should be miserable for someone else. I understand as a parent we make a lot of sacrifices, but staying with someone you do not love isn't one of them IMO. Nor is it healthy to marry just so the kids can have a father figure.

Quoting bearscubed:

Even if it's her choice not to find another partner?

Quoting SalemWitchChild:

No. Just unlucky to find love.


melissa632
by Platinum Member on Aug. 9, 2012 at 10:59 PM
No
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bearscubed
by on Aug. 9, 2012 at 11:00 PM
Yeah, I really don't plan to find love or wait for it anymore.

Quoting ittybit2012:

No.  Some people have no interest in finding someone new.  And then there's the people like me.  I want to avoid that love shit like the plague.

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