A lil back info. I can only tolerate my mom is small doses. She was a horrible parent and honestly she's lucky I talk to her that's how bad it was. I also dot get along with my aunt and especially not with my grandmother (ninny). So ninny is an abusive alcoholic and has always treated me like shit. My brother is autistic and she and my Aunts have always favored him and my other two cousins. I'm the only girl and I was treated worse than Harry potter. An example I was 5 I sat by my brother and asked him if I could play Nintendo. At that I was screamed at that I was not to even look at his Nintendo and with that I was beaten with belt. My mom wouldn't even step in my step dad did. And they (not my mom) are jw and shove it down your throat.
Fast forward now I has ds for is 5 and they are stopping by on there way to savannah. Now my aunt and ninny have never meet my dh. Dh is not afriad to say exactly what is on his mind this should be fun. I have already told my mom that they are not allowed at my home. We will meet them out and see how that goes. They have sent ds cards do they have my address. Now I fear they will plug it into gps. I just won't answer. We don't have the nicest house but it's paid off and that allows us to put money away for a house a we do want.
This should be interesting. Ninny can't shut her mouth an my dh won't hesitate to tell her to shut the f up. Not that I care if he does. That's my vent.
Edit. I'm thinking of not going. That's already in my head. Sonia the fact that they will not like dh and that will be awesome too lol. Immature yes but he'll I think I deserve it.
It's only my mom and her side of the family that I don't get along with. The rest of my family and I are super close.
Thanks for listening