That my husband cheated. Yup. He sure fucking did!! He gets mad because we don't have sex as often as he thinks we should. He wants it everyday. We work two different shifts, I get up at 5am and don't go bed until midnight so I can see him. He works 2-10. I told him yesterday that weds night I had another cyst rupture. So he comes over last night and starts bitching about sex! Umm no. Pain level is about at a 9, don't.freaking touch me. Then he asked me if my ex started cheating on me because I wouldn't have sex. I went off. He knows the story. He knows he cheated on me the whole time and that there were lies from day 1. I said "what the fuck? FYI at one point we were having sex like three times a day and he still had a whore. How dare you make it out to be my fault! If this your line of thinking then you just need to leave now" and he LAUGHED at me. OooOOoo... I'm so pissed off. He tried to blow it off like it was nothing. We are going to have a very long talk this weekend..
We broke up Friday. It hurts and it sucks. But I know it needed to be done. He made me feel like shit for doing it. But I had too. I know I will be ok. I just hope that one day he will find the inner peace he needs to be happy.
And to asnwer some questions... We didn't live togehter. I am a full time single mom of a two year old. I wake up at 5am, take her to daycare between 630-645 and am at work by 730. There's no way I could go to his place in the mornings for sex. We spent almost every weekend together. And usually had sex three or four times a week. But I guess that wasn't good enough for him. Oh well. Life goes on.