We are always told not everyone is like you and your husband. Wtf? Grow up people. We are not saints. My dh works and i am a sahm. Neither of us cheats and we love each other. We always meet people and i get excited then realize after getting to know them they have very serious personal problems. My dh is military and we are socialable we have met a ton of people. I an count on one hand the number of decent human beingsi have met.