Dh and I haven't been having much sex lately. :( Part of it is lack of desire and part is lack of time. My hormones have been blah since having our now 1 year old. Neither of us are big on masturbation either. Do you think if I started masturbating and encouraged him to as well that it would help us be in the mood more?? Or will it satisfy what need we have and make us have sex even less?