Too disgusting for him to touch

[Anonymous]

It's been 2 weeks and he doesn't want to touch me. The last time we had sex was 2 weeks ago and the only reason why he did was because it was my birthday. I feel so ashamed and disgusting. I am only 135 lbs and I am 5'8. I am not fat, I have a decently nice body, but he doesn't want to touch me and it KILLS me inside. He isn't cheating (yet) I know because he is always with me. But it is so hard to know that he doesn;t want to touch me or be intimate with me.

[ltmana]

:( you aren't disgusting. It sounds to me likes he is disgusting. That's cruel of him.

[Anonymous]

ummm. He's a twat muffin.

[QueenBof6]

Did you talk to him about this.

[anime.princess]

You're 5'8" and you're 135 pounds? Wow, you must be quite thin.  What is his problem?

[LuLuThatsWho]

Have you talked to him about it?  What is his reason?

[metalhealthmom]

Is he depressed?

[countrygirlkat]

Are you all fighting a lot or is there a lot of stress in other areas of his life?  Even though we all joke as a society that men only have one thing on their mind 24/7 this isn't the case.  Often if you are fighting a lot, he is very stressed, or he is depressed he won't want sex and it has nothing to do with finding you desirable. 

[Anonymous]

He may not be cheating physically, but I would bet good money he is at least talking to someone. If that's not the case then he has some serious issues.

[ashleighmama]

You are not fat or disgusting. Sounds to me like HE is the one with the problem. Hugs to you mama :-)

[bec94]

Have you asked him what's up? Stress at work? Low sex drive? Maybe he needs to see a doctor. Just ask. Don't accuse, say it like ' we haven't had sex as much as we used too. Do you feel ok?' and go from there.