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What do you make of this text (update)

Posted by Anonymous   + Show Post
Dh and I are on vacation in Fl. While he was in the shower he got a text message. So I looked at it. It was a sad face from one of my girlfriends. I read the text from him to her.
It said

Having an ok time, wish you were her






I've been so depressed and trying to get my happy back and get ready for the baby. I don't really have anyone to talk to about this. After we got back from vacation, I confronted dh about my friend and the text message. He denied anything unscrupulous is going on. I don't believe him, but I don't know what to do. I'm pregnant, due in five weeks. I haven't talked to my friend and she hasn't called since we came back.
Posted by Anonymous on Aug. 17, 2012 at 10:09 PM
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AizysMom
by on Aug. 18, 2012 at 6:06 PM
Amen to that!


Quoting TaLeahMB:

I'd be dragging him out of the shower by his balls. That's what I make of it

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AizysMom
by on Aug. 18, 2012 at 6:06 PM
Seriously? What do you make of it??
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 44 on Aug. 18, 2012 at 7:47 PM
Update??
bluemountain75
by SoftballMom on Aug. 18, 2012 at 7:54 PM

BUMP!

MichelleSw
by CoolStory on Aug. 18, 2012 at 7:56 PM

WOWOWOWOW. That's terrible :(

TaLeahMB
by on Aug. 18, 2012 at 8:00 PM
LMAO!!! Looooooved that part! She got his ass!

Quoting blessed107:

Make sure you pour the baby oil on the floor just like Vivica Fox did in that movie,lmao!

Quoting TaLeahMB:

I'd be dragging him out of the shower by his balls. That's what I make of it


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lovinthislife08
by Bronze Member on Aug. 18, 2012 at 8:04 PM
Update?
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charliebean
by on Aug. 18, 2012 at 8:24 PM
Sure. My STBX was really good friends with my best friend (who was a gay man, but I don't know if that's relevant), and I had all his friend's numbers and would text them if I couldn't get a hold of him. I wouldn't be having long, intimate conversations with them, but there's nothing wrong with having their numbers and being friends too.

Quoting Mdva20082011:

Really? I have never known any of my SO's friends numbers, and vice versa. I could go thru his phone contacts and get their numbers, but if I texted them from my phone they wouldn't know who the hell I am. Unless we talk on the phone regularly. Which would obviously be inappropriate.




Quoting charliebean:

A lot of people know their SOs frienda numbers. That's not weird. Also not weird that she knows they're on vacation. How should I know what his comfort level is? Some guys are pigs and are comfortable saying ANYTHING.





Quoting Mdva20082011:

How would the husband know her friends number and be comfortable enough to text her that? If he said "wish u were here" then that means he and the friend talk enough for her to know they were going on vacation. Otherwise she would have replied what are you talking about? Who is this? Or something like that.








Quoting charliebean:

To play devil's advocate, we don't actually know that your friend is doing anything untoward. It's obvious your husband is a shitbag, but all we know she sent him is a frowny face, which could mean she's "sad" she's not there either, or that she's disappointed that her friend's husband just texted that to her, or she is uncomfortable and didn't know how to respond and just sent the face instead. I know if I was in that situation, I'd probably do the last and then tell my friend about it when she gets home. But you DEFINITELY need to do something about your skeevy husband.


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angelmommy2
by Bronze Member on Aug. 18, 2012 at 9:14 PM
Update at all?
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mariT0127
by on Aug. 18, 2012 at 10:37 PM
Bump so what happened??
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