Cause I honestly don't know what to think? Why would they invite me?
So when I was little I caught on rather quickly that I wasn't really wanted around my father or his family. Which baffled me cause I had no clue what I was doing so wrong. When I was 12, I was raped and my father threw a fit! I remember listening to him yell at mom that this situation that I put him in was so embarrassing and he didn't know how he was ever going to face his friends. That he couldn't deal with me anymore and that something needed to be done about it. SO I was sent to live with my grandparents 100 miles away. After a year and a half my parents decided to move to the same town. So the resentment started once again. I found out that year that the reason my father and his family disliked me so much was because supposedly I'm not his daughter (something I still don't know the truth about). Don't get me wrong, I love my mom but she's not the most honest person either so I don't know who to believe. Now fastwording to the present...err more or less....in March I was married. I sent invites out too all my family including my father's side. One of my Uncles even told me without any hesitation not to even bother sending him one cause he had better things to do...I never got any replies from the rest of his family. My father showed up with one of my aunts, staying only long enough for the ceremony then he was gone. No goodbye...nothing. So anyway, I just logged into my FB account and there was a message from the same uncle that had said "he had better things to do" on my wedding day, inviting me to their family reunion. I'm confused why they wuld even bother if they know that I'm not wanted there?? I just don't know what to make of it. What do you ladies think? I know I'm not going but was just curious to what others thought about the family that hates me...inviting me to their family reunion.